Thursday, October 28, 2010

If a girl grinds with her date at prom does that mean she is easy?

i have a feeling the guy that i like is going to ask me to prom sometime this week,if he doesnt oh well but i just want to be ready just in case. But lets say if he asks me to prom...and all the girls that dances with their guys always grinds on them.....i mean i know how to%26amp; i know how to dance too,but i am afraid the guy might think i am easy? would it be good if i just grind on him %26amp; if he thinks that he will get laid after prom like most guys do %26amp; i say no ....will he appricate me ??? or should i dance a different way %26amp; not grind,then i am afriad he might not like me? :[ if this happens lol somebody help me %26amp; give me advice please !If a girl grinds with her date at prom does that mean she is easy?
it doesnt mean you're easy. Grinding is a way of dancing. You can dance with him anyway you want. Yes, even though that grinding DOES allude to sex, he wont think OH IM SO GUNNA GET LAID TONIGHT.



dance however you want. you'll be fine! Have fun!If a girl grinds with her date at prom does that mean she is easy?
no

How do girls grind dance at parties or dances?

I'm a Junior in High School and I'm 16 years old but I come from a small town so I find it a bit awkward to be grinding up on someone who you'll see in the halls the next day so I haven't had very much experience with this. This weekend I'm going to a dance at another school where grinding is pretty much the only way they dance. So to my question(s) I was wondering, how exactly do you do it (back to front grinding)? I've heard you're supposed to move your hips in a sideways figure 8 motion with the music, is this true? Also should a girl be going with or against a guys motion. Is there anything else a girl should do to make things more interesting? What do you do with your hands? Lastly, is there any point where she should turn around (front to front) or would that just freak a guy out?

Thanks so much!

LindsayHow do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
First ill say I think you are thinking WAY to much into this. I really don't think more girls think about how they are going to dance before they do it, they just move with the music. If you are wanting to learn to dance like how people do in clubs, then just listen to the music. If you have completely no idea you could look on youtube at rap videos or something. How do girls grind dance at parties or dances?
I cant believe i am entertaining this...

you need to just go out there and dance how you feel the music.

but this might help a bit too...

http://www.clubdancelessons.com/

and search http://www.youtube.com as well

How to grind with a guy -for guys to answer-?

im going to a dance soon and i was wondering what guys like when a girl grinds on them????

1.is there a such this as dancing to hard on a guy?

2.should guys or girls take the lead?

3. please add anything you think a girl should knowHow to grind with a guy -for guys to answer-?
If he puts his hands on your hips and starts leading, you let him lead.



But in general, guys want girls to take the lead, they're the sexy ones after all. You're the one turning him on, so you gotta do what you think is good.



If a guy can't handle you, finish the song and get off that thing, look for another and grind him, lol. Dancing's for having fun! :DHow to grind with a guy -for guys to answer-?
You shake, rub, and move your hips on his frontal area with ur booty basically humping him. he holds ur wasit and enjoys it.



Easy as pie.





For examples watch music videos.
its EZ.

just bend and rub on him.

he does nothing but try to keep his cock from springing.

:DD
usually he'll hold your hips with his hands. just follow him. the guys should take the lead. just watch this video:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zN_Kj5vYD鈥?/a>



just basically do what she does, especially at-

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Everyone was forcing me to grind last night?

I was at a party last night, and I'm only 14. There was girl-on-girl grinding all over the place. My boyfriend was there too. Everyone was saying, ';Natalie... why aren't you grinding with him?'; and people were saying the same to my boyfriend. I said that I didn't want to because I felt like a slut, and everybody kept trying to teach me how.



It was really embarassing. I grinded with him for a few seconds, but I just didn't feel right doing it. I probably would have been MUCH more comfortable if everyone wasn't crowding around me and watching me do it with him.



Even this one kid turned to my boyfriend and said, ';She doesn't want to grind... I feel bad for you.'; he was kidding and he's one of my friends, but still. It made me feel like crap. All of these guys were coming up to me and were being like, ';You look amazing and you have stuff so use it.'; I just felt trashed all night because of the whole grinding situation.



I feel really embarrased, and my boyfriend told me that it's completely fine. That he understands. I just feel really upset... can you please help me?Everyone was forcing me to grind last night?
I'm the same age and that happens alot at parties but as long as your boyfriend understands there's no problem, what you do with your boyfriend is no one elses buisness.Everyone was forcing me to grind last night?
I know you're embarrassed, but you just have to hold your head up high. Even if you're embarrassed, you need to just let the other kids see that you're proud of the decision you made. At school on Monday, if people make fun of you or tease you, just let them know that you don't aspire to look like a **** and that they shouldn't be so concerned about you grinding with your boyfriend. Leave it at that.
its great that stood your ground girl.

makes mme happy to hear that you stood up for yourself.

dont listen to all of those other kids,

believe me, once u get in college u wont even remember their names anymore.

as long as your boyfriend understands and has respect for you, thats all that shud matter.

congrats for standing up for yourself... :)
I've grinded before, and I don't like it either. It makes u feel dirty in a sense. Don't worry about it, and don't let it get to you. The best ability is the ability to ignore peer pressure.
First of all your 14, Second you should not care what other people think of you. You are your own person. You yourself knows right from wrong and you should not let people tell you that you wrong for doing something they may fell is right but you know is wrong. There is a time and place for dancing like that and it is not when your 14. Even s ome adults should not do it... lol... You need to focus on what is important and stop stressin, look back 10 years from now when you are graduating college because you did not break into peer pressure and others are struggling raising kids and in a dead end job. I know because i had a baby and was married by the time i was 16. Be safe and be your own person.

How do you grind/freakdance?

um i know this is a stupid question

but im a freshman and i ditched my homecoming

the thing is i did get asked, 3 times, but not by anyone id actually go with you know? and id only want to go with someone i genuinely like, but thats just me.



anyways my friend told me that everyone was grinding eachother. but umm i dont even know how to grind properly haha, so could someone give me some pointers so i dont look like an idiot at my next school dance?



also when you grind, do you jump up and down? cause at our schools back to school dance i saw this girl grinding with her boyfriend except the girl was like jumping...? but then some people say you just move your hips or whatver...



help? haha thanksHow do you grind/freakdance?
okay so i would strongly segest you dont jump up and down, it will just make it alot harder to dance.



so pretty much all you do is roll your body, and swing your hips. exsagerate your movements. you will almost never look awkward danceing becouse if somehow the danceing does look or feel awkward just asume its the guys fault b/c it usulaly is, haha.







help full hints...

Get out there and have some fun. You can't grind if you're not even on the dance floor or standing watching other people grind.

Guys LOVE it when a girl grinds with a boy.

Move towards the middle of a big group of people. Usually that's where a lot of the grinding is.

Find one of your good friends that you feel comfortable with and begin to dance with her. Dance with her normally as if no one was watching. This doesn't have to be sexually. A guy will soon notice you, mainly because you're dancing and having fun with your best friend. Most likely a guy won't say anything when he wants to grind, but instead will give you subtle signals.

Act normally, as if you don't even realize that they're coming. Be sure to keep dancing

They would appreciate if you look at them and smile and signal them over. Don't Ignore them, acknowledge their prescence.

Know what kind of grinding you're doing. When you feel a guy grab you around the hips he can either be facing you or facing your back. If he's facing your back this is normal grinding and more popular. Front grinding is more risqu茅 and sexy! Most people don't do front grinding their first time.

Leave your arms by your side or maybe even grab his arms, you can also put them on your thighs as you dance for sapport if you get tiered. or you can wrap you arms arouind your neck, even when your back is to them

If the guy you're trying to dance with isn't the best at grinding, put your hands into his pockets and have your hands follow the motion of your hips. This usually works best when you're hips are moving in circles or sideways figure-eights.

Be ready for the song to end. Usually, the guy will walk away. Sometimes he'll say something and sometimes not. Don't be offended if he just walks away in the middle of the song. Don't let that get to you because the chances are that the guy has gotten 'happy' and doesn't want to make things uncomfortable. Just quickly find that friend you were dancing with before. Make it look like nothing is wrong and you're glad that he's gone. but if you want to keep danceing with him for the next song too dance in the break like music is still playing, dont stop!



When you move your hips, move in the shape of a sideways figure-eight.

Don't move with your shoulders, grinding is done with your hips.

Stay on rhythm. Practice at home where no one is watching. DO THIS!!

Try not to step on the guy's feet. Ouch!

Don't touch yourself and try to act all sexy. It'll probably seem forced.

If a guy touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, leave or move his hand. Just because you're grinding it doesn't give him the right to grope you. but try not to get affened by it, just move his hands, hes just horny he cant help him self

If you want to pop lock and drop it then make sure he doesn't go down with you, just pop lock and drop it normally.

Better yet, let us not pop lock and drop it trust me if you can't do it, don't do it!

The best dancers glow in confidence. If you are worried about how good of a dancer you are, when you grind with someone remember that you are already dancing, so he obviously doesn't have a problem.

If you are to join a train, make sure you are in between people you are comfortable grinding with!

Girls- you don't have to let just anyone grind you!

Any fast song like Rap, or Hip-Hop is best to grind to!

If a guy is behind you, and you're mostly sure he wants to grind with you, back into him a bit, so that he knows you are interested. He will most likely put his hands on your hips, and you will start to grind.

Don't get mad if you see a guy you grinded with, grinding with other girls. Grinding isn't serious. It's just for fun!

Move up and down and be sure to bend your knees and move your knees side to side.

If your boy partner is not knowing what to do, take his hands and place them on your waist/stomach/hips and move him in the way you want to move.

Don't dance too slow or the guy won't enjoy it and will leave.

To make things interesting, you can grind face to face.

The best songs to grind to are the faster beat ones. It gives you more of a chance to show your moves

If the guy gets an erection, either ignore it or walk away if it makes you uncomfortable. Even though it's completely natural, he's probably a lot more embarrassed about it than you. Don't try to touch him there if you aren't shooting for serious groping. and if he gets one, hey at least you know your doing well and they like what your doing;)

If the guy tries to make you do anything you don't want to, just politely tell him to takeHow do you grind/freakdance?
Don't grind and be like the other sluts. Try to have a little self esteem. You can dance sexy without annoying grinding. Seriously, think for yourself.
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  • Whats this Chris Brown song, I can't find it?

    Here we are all alone in dis room

    And girl i know where to start and wut we gone do

    i'll take my tiime we'll be all night grl

    so get ready babe i got plans for me and you [[oooo]]



    it aint my first time but baby girl we can pretend

    we could bump and grind

    girl tonight will never end



    {chorus}



    let me beat you down

    i really wanna beat you down

    and show you what im about

    can i take u now

    ya body body [[ohhh]]

    ya body body up and down

    so dont stop grl qet it

    quit playin wit it

    cant wait no mo

    i wanna beat u down

    i really wana beat u down

    beat u down

    [[yeeeaa]]



    pretty girl lets take it off in dis room

    no time to waste grl u kno wut we came to do (ooooooooo)

    we got all nite to try to get it right girl

    i hope you ready[4x]

    i hope you ready babe because here we go

    you know how we do (oooooo)



    it aint first time but baby girl we can pretend

    hey this bump and grind girl tonight it never end



    {Chorus}

    let me beat you down

    i really wanna beat you down

    and show you what im about (im about)

    can i beat you down

    ya body body [[ooooo]]

    ya body body up and down

    so dont stop get girl it quit playing with it

    cant wait no more(i cant wait no more)

    i wanna beat you down

    i really wanna beat you down (i really wanna beat you down)(yea)



    (Bridge)



    doooo...freak it oh baby like a pro baby

    and i bet that you (i bet that you)(oh oh oh oh)

    think you no baby like a pro baby

    so what u wanna do(I'm gonna)

    take it down baby nice and slow

    so bring it lets goooo baby baby baby babyyyyyyyy [[yea yea]]

    baby baby baby babyyyyyy

    come on baby[2x]



    {chorus}

    (let me beat you down) let me beat you down

    i really wanna beat you down

    [let me show let me do it to you like i wanna do]

    and show you what im about

    can i beat you down [[whoaa]]

    ya body body [[oooooooo]] [[ya body ody]]

    ya body body up and down [[ya body body up and]] [[yea yea yea yea]]

    so dont stop girl get it [[oooooo]]

    quit playing with it

    cant wait no more girl [[i cant wait no more]]

    i wanna beat you down

    i really wanna beat you down [[beat you downnnnn]]

    beat you down [[yea]]

    beat you down[[whoaaa]] [[i said i wanna beat you down yea yea]]

    let me beat you take you down[[all the way down all the way down]]

    [[we can do some things goin all the way down]]

    beat you down.....



    beat you down







    I guess its one of those mockery songs, but seriously where do i find it?Whats this Chris Brown song, I can't find it?
    it's called Chris Brown - Take You Down



    You can download it on imeem.com or beemp3.comWhats this Chris Brown song, I can't find it?
    The name of the song is: ';TAKE YOU DOWN'; By Chris Brown not ';Beat You Down';



    OMG! You thought he was saying beat you down?

    How many guys grind with girls that they don't plan to date?

    I'm doing a quick poll here and well, it did recently happen to me so I just want to get some stats and find ways to pinpoint the guys that want to grind on me but not interested in knowing me so I can ditch them...so they don't waste me time knowing quality guys.How many guys grind with girls that they don't plan to date?
    Most guys will grind with any girl who lowers herself to allow it. It is more about sexual gratification than any interest in you as a person. He doesn't even have to know your name, its just physical.



    Relationships that last are built on a strong foundation. Common interests, laughter, having fun. When it is just sex, it almost always crumbles 'cause the foundation for anything lasting was never built.How many guys grind with girls that they don't plan to date?
    depends if im drunk ill grind with anyone
    How does a guy 'grind' on a girl?
    its just dancing i wouldnt take it to mean anything
    cuz there pigs and if u let them they will its all about them thinking how much they can get away with only u hold the leash
    I've gotten a few girls phone numbers then thrown them out the next morning... I could've done that last night, but meh.
    LOL girls grind on guys.. not the other way around.
    grinding with a guy who knows how to do it well is a real turn on. You have just been with a few wanna be's that fell short. any guy worth grinding should have been kissing you passionately (if you know how) prior to starting grinding on a girl. then they keep kissing passionately while grinding. You will love it when you get it good.