Thursday, November 11, 2010

How to grind dance, what to do with hips?

Im a guy in high school and ive been partying more and i know people love to grind dance at parties, and i was wondering how to grind dance? I know the basics, like get behind the girl put your hands on her waist and basically just follow her motions with your hips, but what do you do with your hips exactly? do you just rock them, or do you rock and push on her alittle bit? also what can you do while grinding that girls like.. like any moves or special things lol? and i really just wanna start grinding good because my girlfriend really likes to dance, and the next time we go out i want to surprise her and dance good, and i dont want her to have to dance with other guys because she's not satisfied or something, so anything would help. thanksHow to grind dance, what to do with hips?
Uh look it up it's kind of hard to explain but basically just move your hips around like kind of in a circle but not exactly, um, I can't explain it never mind.How to grind dance, what to do with hips?
Dude, just ask your girlfriend to teach you. I'm sure she'd love to.. ahaha.

Hey, Dancing with girl question?

Hey, well anyway i just recently starting going to bars, and dancing. At my school dances i would grind with a few of the girls, but it seems to be much harder to start grinding with random girls.



Well, yesterday i got **** faced n smoked half a blunt to my face with my friends. We went into the bar to do some dancing, i think i might have been to high, and i ask my friend how do u start grinding with girls. He told me just tap them and ask if you wanna dance, so i was like okay.



Tried this 8 times got rejected 7 times hehe, wasnt gonna leave until i had atlesat one.



Is what i am doing wrong?



I find at my school dances i would dance to the music and if i see a girl shaking her butt or w.e near me, and i guess we slowly start getting a little closer(or i jus go closer) grinding with me coming up from behind and grinding to see see if they go away would that be appropriate or do u girls think its a creep who does that ? i need suggestions thanks !



I am 19 btw, and going to a party tonight to try ag !Hey, Dancing with girl question?
Well you should always be outgoing. Hardly ever is a girl going to ask you.



Most of the times, guy just pop up behind me and i dance with them, but i think it would be really sweet if a guy asked.



Some girls may have a boyfriend, just want to dance with their girls or are lesbian. So dont be affected by rejection.



You should smile and ask if she wants to dance, and then stay really tight on her body. Put your hands on her hips while she moves, but not in a controlling kind of way, just going with the flo. Move with her body, and dont worry because girls mostly have to do all the work.



You should tell her thats she one of the best dancers youve been with after, even if she sucked.



Grindings fun so dont take it seirously, look cocky and have it in your mind that you can get the girl, because if your shy, then a bar isnt a good place for you.



Enjoy your life and i hope you have greatt luck!Hey, Dancing with girl question?
no
Go up to them and ask them if they want a drink or something, buy it for them then chat a while. THEN ask her to dance. Good luck!
thats not ok! player! cheater! i would never trust my boyfriend if i knew he was doing stuff like that!
i would be creeped out.
very creepy
Ew. Well I can tell you that if you came up to me obviously high and said ';wanna dance?'; there isn't a chance I would say yes because it would be pretty obvious all you wanted to do was get off on grinding...



And most definately if some strange guy came up on me and started grinding I'd think he was a complete creep and get out of there as quick as possible.



Why don't you try when you aren't high (this is really a huge turn off for a lot of women who aren't in high school anymore) or maybe try introducing yourself first and talking for a few minutes before asking her to dance. You're more likely to get a yes that way.
If a guy came up to me that I didn't know and wanted to dance and grind on me,I would tell him to get the heck away from me.
your motivation is all wrong.

you're just going in there thinking ';I WANT TO GRIND WITH ALL OF THESE HOT CHICKS';



if girls get that vibe from you, they won't want to dance, because they think you're creepy.

How do i grind with a girl correctly?

i cant dance for sh*t and im going to this party soon so i want to learn how to grind with a girl properly, any help would be great.How do i grind with a girl correctly?
There's no one-way-fits-all solution, dude. It's about you and the girl and how you move together. You just have to feel it.



In general, try to relax as much as possible and just let yourself move. Don't be smarmy or super-deliberate or anything. Make it something fun for you and her.How do i grind with a girl correctly?
lol. Watch MTV or BET. Just go with the flow. Let her lead if you feel more comfortable that way .
be prepared for wood.

she may or may not appreciate it poking her.
eh the girl pretty much does a lot of the work anyways. just move together with her, and guide her hips with your hands, gently.
Yeah, like everyone already said. The wood isn't nice. She does most of the work... Just put your hands on her hips and you'll be fine.
Why don't you start by getting the nastiest, rap-loving whore you can find.



After that, tell the slut that you're friends with some gangster rap star who slaps around white women for fun. That should turn her on pretty well.



Once she's ready, buy her a six pack of malt liqour and let the festivities begin. ROFL



Best answer, right here
ok i know how 2 grind stright up if ur gona dance wit a girl all u gotta do it move side 2 side but...u gotta move 2 da beat if u don't ur screwed n like hold da girls waist n move side 2 side n u'll b good n as u go on n on u'll get better n better

Why are latinas much better at dancing?

Ive danced with a lot of girls (grinding) and i prefer latinas. Caucasion girls just don't know how to move no offense.Why are latinas much better at dancing?
I think Latinas are much better at dancing then Caucasian girls because Latinas have grown up with dancing in their lives. One of my best friends in Latino and she's told me that when Latinos get together with their families and things of that nature, they always dance. So Latinas have grown up around dancing all the time and it's in their genes.

Not saying that there aren't any good Caucasian dancers out there because there most definitely are. It just depends on your body and if you know how to move it or not.Why are latinas much better at dancing?
Latinas may be better dancer than many caucasians, but they are not better than the African Americans

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I'm tired of racist questions in dance. Sad thing is, when people try to explain that, the asker still doesn't get it.

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i think latinas and black girl are better dancer than white girls

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Three words: Hips don't lie.
Because it's in there blood. They r some sexy ladies.
Anyone that enjoys spending a lot of time dancing will likely get good at it. If dancing is more intertwined in your family, then you probably started dancing more complex dances at a younger age. It has nothing to do with your race or gender.
LOL! I'm Latina- well, Hispanic...lol! I'm white w/ a light mexican tan. u can't really tell, but people r shocked when they find out i'm hispanic! It's funny! And yes i do agree that us LATINAS knw how to dance (I'm american too, but i have to say that African Americans and Hispanics/Latinas really knw how to dance) They can dance Hip-Hop and break dance. I mean, have u seen the Music videos? They're soo good! They can shake it and move 'em hips! Hey, i can't lie!!...my opinion!! We can move our Hips!



Que Vive M茅xico y Los Latinos/as!!!!!
its not only latino...if you practice or naturally good at it..then it is awesome.
Im latina and I think its coz we are more feisty, we always/usually express our emotions and we love dancing coz its really expressive, and we love men and we love expressing stuff to them! whereas tons of caucasions find it a lot harder to express their emotions, and so find it much more uncomfortable dancing.



also, latin people touch each other a lot, coz its a sign of expression! we always touch people when we like them. caucasion people dont really do that coz its just not in their culture. like a latin greeting is a hug and a kiss and a caucasion greeting is more likely a shaking of hands!



we're also generally fairly comfy in our own skin coz latin people all for loving who you are and for being who you are and not being afraid and stuff and your brought up like that all your life so u know ur defects and strong points.

things r generally a lot more hushed for caucasions.
the white girls are moving you just cant tell because they dont HAVE much to move.
Probably because the culture tends to accept and promote the sexualization of women. Lets be honest, in most Latin American countries sexual objectification at an early age is the norm,don't believe me watch TV in Brazil or Peru..they have 14yr olds dancing like salsa inspired strippers, This acceptance of overt sexuality tends to limit peoples inhibitions.



No inhibitions=nasty on the dancefloor.
Haha. If grinding is your ultimate test of dancing abilities then I don't know what to tell you. You might be intersted to learn that Russians win all Latin dance competitions, like Cha Cha and Rumba and other dances like that. Russians are caucasians (well mostly anyway). And Russians hug too when they great each other. It is all matter of opnion: I might think that Russians are far better at dancing because I like how they dance.



Bottom line: think before you generalize.

I Need Some Tips About Grinding With Girls?

Hi, I just have some questions about grinding with girls. Do girls like it when guys get hard? Do girls like it when a random guy goes up to them and start grinding on them? If a girl is not interested in grinding with a guy, what does she do? Where should guys put their hands on the girl? Where should a guy move his hand to show a girl that he is into her? How should a guy try to hookup with a girl while grinding? What do girls generally expect/want from guys while grinding? Any other pointers?I Need Some Tips About Grinding With Girls?
goodness you have mad questions lolz.

Okay well some girls do like when I guy starts to get hard because they usually will not stop.

When a random guy comes up to a chick and starts grinding them,

they usually have to be cute to grind with crtain girls.

A girl who does not want to grind will just sit down or stay around her friends.

Usually when girls like bend dow and start grinding the guys puts one hand on tthe sholder the other on her head, but just hold her waist.

A guy should just never let her go to show she is interested instead of grabbing her ever where will just make her think you a getting harder.

Guys should actaully just talk to a girl then ask for her number.

Girls want guys to dace along not just stand.



huh alot of questions hah good luck :)I Need Some Tips About Grinding With Girls?
er..........i hope your talking about dancing =/
look her in eyes and say hi
do not randomly grind on me when i don't know you. if i do know you, then yes you may get hard, that's a turn on. put your hands on her stomach. kiss her neck to show youre into her. they dont want anything they just want to dance unless theyre sl*ts. :)
here's a tip, don't do it :) haha!
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Thursday, October 28, 2010

How do you grind at a dance?

My school is having a dance. My friends are all like you have to grind with that girl. I know what it is i jst dont know how to do it. can you tell me the steps or tips?How do you grind at a dance?
just stand behind her but ask if you can dance with her first....she will think its sweet....just put your hands on her hips stand facing her or behing and move with the music back and forth...the girl does most of the dancing...the idea of grinding is getting the guy hard.How do you grind at a dance?
Okay one thing there is no steps to ';grinding';
http://www.netdances.com/BumpandGrind-27鈥?/a>



here's a video that teaches you how!
Just stand behind her and step side to side, lean back, snap yo' fingers, thizzle dance, and many other dance moves that require little general movement.
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