I am having a lot of social problems right now and i need someone that can help me and give good advice?

there are a couple different problems but im just gonna add it up in a story...



so i just graduated from 8th grade this year moving on to highschool at first i thought it was gonna be nothing bad or anything but its turned oout being a little depressing and hard and before i was a very popular and loveable guy and i was friends with every1 now i came here and i cant make friends im a little on the shy side but then i become outgoing and fun so as skool went on ppl started to talk to me and im kind cool with people but its a very hard change and i have been skiping lunch becuz i just sit anywhere and its usually with a bunch of people that are immature little fags and idk i just dnt sit with the ppl im ok with but like idk its just such a hard situation for me now its like im starting from the bottom again but i know a seinor who has introduced me to a lot of ppl who i am cool with but its not like im in classes with them so in geNERAal i guess u cud say im having problems making friends and like when i came to my new skool i always scope out the girls and have found a lot and i just dont have the confidence anymore to go up to them and talk so i have been talking through aim and they like me on aim but they like other gguys becuz they are actually hanging with them in person so im having problems with my confidence and i get shy like i said already and my dad wasnt shy and he was good with the girls and i wanna be too i wanna be charming and loveable like i was in 8th grade i dont know how to get my person and confidence back from 8th grade now all of a sudden ive become so shy and not confident with girls like i just lose things to talk about so another thing is getting my self confidence back and not being shy another thing is im too obssesive over looking good and trying to fix everything about me and look good with clothes and sneakers and these little things which isnt bad but idk it just takes up my mind so idk help with tht too and lastly im shy about going to partys and grinding with girls and just dancing in general becuz i cant dance i wanna learn how to dance better and not be shy just this whole shy thing and getting adjusted to skool is killing me i need a girlfriend and i wanna be the fun outgoing person i was in 8th grade so idk what happened can some1 please help me i wud appreciate it so muchI am having a lot of social problems right now and i need someone that can help me and give good advice?
This is not an issue of lacking confidence but just a change in time and space. U r new to the place and it usually takes time to get ur self completely settled in one place. Take it lightly and dont let it be an issue of ur life. Have patience and go on. Everything will be all right.I am having a lot of social problems right now and i need someone that can help me and give good advice?
you are going thru something that every single one of us has had to go thru hon. And you need to understand that this is just the way it is. Eventually you will graduate high school, then what happens? You go to college, and you are at the bottom of the totem pole again. When you graduate college and get a job, guess what, at the bottom of the social pecking order again. It's life, it's what happens, sometimes it really sucks, but you know what? You learn an awful lot about being kind, about being understanding of others, because you are there now. Remember these trying times and be kind to those who come up behind you. It's all a learning curve, and while it is hard, you will get thru it.