Sunday, November 21, 2010

I want to learn Grind dance?

In Gainesville (FL), you gotta know how to grind. We have a dance coming up and I need some explanation as to how to grind! I've never done it before. Actually, I've danced with a girl several times but I really want to learn hot grind better. Does any girl out there wants to learn and/or teach grind dance. PLEASE HELP ME!I want to learn Grind dance?
hump her, with your clothesI want to learn Grind dance?
watch a lot of mtv's...you'll learn quickly and a lot

Good luck in your upcoming dance

How do you grind (dance)?

I was grinding with this guy, front to back, and I was just kinda like moving a long with him, but when I looked at the other people grinding like that, the girls were bent over and like moving in a circle, but it didn't really look like they were moving the same way as the guy. Which way are you supposed to grind? and how do you grind front to front?How do you grind (dance)?
why would you even want to know? whatever happened to just old groovin' to the beat instead of ...well...other stuff?!How do you grind (dance)?
Um....

Whatever way you want to grind, then that's the way that you go.



Girls who do that are most likely more into the music (or guy) or they could just be having fun...



Hun, it's whatever you wanna do...you lead the guy...dont follow him.....



Hope I helped! :O)

HOW DOES A GUY GRIND FACE TO FACE WITH A GIRL?

Going to a party, need some advice about grinding face to face. Ive grinded withthe girls back to me MANY MANY times, so i know how to do that. I just dont know how to grind face to face. ThanksHOW DOES A GUY GRIND FACE TO FACE WITH A GIRL?
i already answered this for you. no big deal (:

HELP with GRINDING P!!!!!!!!! I NEED HELP!!!!! BIG TIME?

I need help with grinding????!!!!!!?

just wanna now how the proper way, or the fun way, (you know what i mean) of grinding on girls at a high school dance. (we are allowed to do it. (i want both guys and girls opinions)



also a question for the girls, do you feel the guys penis when he grinds on you??? cause im afraid mine might be to small, and they might not like it, stiff or notHELP with GRINDING P!!!!!!!!! I NEED HELP!!!!! BIG TIME?
uhhh as far as your question about the penis goes, if shes grinding on you close and hard enough to get it hard/feel it she wont care,



The best way to grind would be to observe before you actually do it and then approach after you have an idea. Since your a guy and in the back it wont be that big a deal. Just keep your hips moving and try to compliment her movements. If shes gettin her butt up onto you then show her that you like that by pushing forward a little bit in response. Just go out there have fun and do what feels natural.HELP with GRINDING P!!!!!!!!! I NEED HELP!!!!! BIG TIME?
um......ew....why would any of the girls wanna grind wit you youre probably to perverted!
You definitely need help and it's not in reference to ';grinding.'; I hear grinding is what guys who have no skills do to get a cheap feel on women.
lmao

our school dance was so dumb they didnt play any thing we wanted so we just stood around and talked
follow her lead. LOL
OMG dude lol freaking funny.......



um seriously though.... i found myself

@ a h.s dance and was like wow dude this is wack like ppl grinding.... it was a private school dance and @ first things sucked like i go to a private school n some ppl dragged me along.....

they all danced cause they knew chicks and i was like wow son... i havent danced with a chick yet and theres 45 mins left from 2 hr 1/2 dance.... so i went up to some random chik and started grinding with her right.....? FREAKIN AWESOME..... 4 dances in a row... and i poped

that **** and when i was goin i backed off for a bit and let her go ( like pull away sortoff) and when i did she came bak on me hard and we grinded again....



So pick the right girl....

lifes to short to worry about your small shlong..

freakin dance to the music and

dont be to agressive

be agressive when u start then back off to see if she diggin it then go harder .....

ight





see u in heaven son.... let me knw how u were there.....

How to grind dance [for girls?]?

Well this guy wanted to dance with me last time but i didnt know HOW to exactley..So i just stood there looking like an idiot.

Well i know how to do it now kinda...sortat..okay well i still need explanation..and well.. i just dont know when to go fast or slow? like lets say we're dancing to what is it by baby bash.

Would i like go to the beat of it or what?



i dont care if you think its disgusting, its how people dance, get over it. i just want a good answer..How to grind dance [for girls?]?
yeah,the first person that answered is right. move to the beat.

and shake your booty girl!!.lolHow to grind dance [for girls?]?
its called rhythm. move to the music %26amp;follow him..

it doesnt really matter.. rub your *** on him %26amp;im

sure he'll be satisfied wit juss that.

If i want to dance with a girl at a rave,how do i ask?

If i ask a girl to dance(grind)at a rave,how do i ask.

do i just go up and ask ';hey do you wanna dance???'; and just start dancing with her if she says yes or should i do something else?If i want to dance with a girl at a rave,how do i ask?
You just kinda sneak up into it..hehe

Feel the music, bounce a bit..

You see a girl, give her the eye!

If its packed and your bold enough, you can just start dancing behind her.

Or you can start dancing in front of her and maybe she'll join you!
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  • How to tell a girl that you want to dance with someone else?

    at semi's in highschool which is basically girls and guys grinding the whole time. My goal is to get as many girls on the go as possible but once i start dancing with one i dont know how to tell her im done. I usually just say i have to go to the bathroom but its getting old and not very effective because its so obivious.How to tell a girl that you want to dance with someone else?
    just walk awayHow to tell a girl that you want to dance with someone else?
    stand up say thank you for everything now im gonna go have some fun
    just say thanks and go start talkin to someone else
    just stand up straight and say thank you
    butter her up with compliments and then say that u need to get a drink, take a break, go to the bathroom, or you need to go say hi to a guy u know and walk away.



    Be Nice

    Love at First sight? Get this girl out my head please!!?

    Let me start by saying i am no retard i have blond hair im slim and i like colourful cloths o and im 16. but the wierdest thing happened to me at reading music festival, admitedly i hadnt pulled for a while (1 month) but when i started danceing with this girl it was no surprise to me or my mates. she had messy brown hair and a beautiful body, i lost her in the crowd after the set, mainly my fault for being high and pissed but ever since this dance a kiss i cant get this girl out my headit saddens me to know that i will never see her again and although on the next day i was grinding 2 other girls i had to leave them. %26gt;.%26lt; this girl is still in my head, she is basically the girl of my dreams wtf wont someone help me!! im pretty much useless at the moment wen i think of her my heart actually hurts, im 16 this shudnt happen wtf, i was gunna go out with some girls this week but i had to cancel how could they compare! i need some advice. for the love of god i need help.!Love at First sight? Get this girl out my head please!!?
    There is no real help for what your going through...ive been there so i sympathise with you. What i use to do though was keep busy...going out with those girls is just what you need to do and have fun...find things to occupy your mind so that you dont have room for thoughts of her. Love at First sight? Get this girl out my head please!!?
    Time is the best healer
    try meditating
    your an ****
    just do something so u won't think of her,,..
    Ok seriously lets be honest your never gonna see her again and only you could heal on your on time seriously just take a breather.
    Pray, the Son Of God!

    Meditate

    Deal with spiritual life

    Stay busy!! That helps a lot!

    DO ANYTHING THAT HELPS YOU TO FORGOT HER!

    God Bless You!
    emm try writing a poem or a story about this girl..

    keep in your mind that she is one of your precious memories..

    just smile to yourself and think of her as a beautiful moments..

    you dont really need to forget her..

    if you think you are really in love with her..

    try to find any information about her..

    Question about dances and dirty dances: NEED GIRL ADVICE?

    So girls, i have a question for you guys. I am sort of un-experienced with dirty dancing with girls I DO NOT know. I have grinded on girls that I do know before and it was a breeze.



    However, I am planning on going to dances in which there will be people that I do not know. The ones I have in mind include grinding.



    How can I grind on these girls? Should I just go up to the wall where guys line up?





    Thanks!Question about dances and dirty dances: NEED GIRL ADVICE?
    Just say want to dance. You don't need to really do anything, just tap them on the should or if you make eye contact just say want to dance.

    At first it feels intimidating, but after you do it its no problem and i have never gotten rejected before by doing that.

    It is also great for boosting your confidence and making you feel great.Question about dances and dirty dances: NEED GIRL ADVICE?
    easy either ask a girl to dance with you

    or when they dance just go behind them

    them continue dancing with them.

    Did my inability to grind prevent me from...?

    hooking up?



    im a college student and at the party the other day i was a little clueless about grinding when this girl wanted to dance. she wanted to dance but since she never said she wanted to dance with me i thought it would be inappropriate if i touched her too much while dancing. turns out she wanted grinding and didnt realize that until afterwards when my friends noticed that i should have making more physical contact with her. i realized my shyness prevented me from possibly hooking up with her



    now my question is, how do i take the next step forward? say we grinded and had a good time, do i then try to get us in a more secluded spot and try to make out



    hopefully you playas can give some advice for an engineering nerd like meDid my inability to grind prevent me from...?
    dudeee.

    law of dynamics no 1: if a girl approaches you with some energy, it cannot be destroyed- only transferred



    so transfer some of that energy right back at her



    no 2: the equilibrium of the system decreases as you two grind your bodies, and the entropy increases.



    so increase the entropy thus more



    also man...



    hormones are like building blocks, think of them like monomers.



    as you two sweat and come closer- your giving off a ton of heat- dehydrating the bonds between the monomers to make polymers.



    and thus the system as a whole creates a beautiful molecule that you must utilize unordered to perform work.



    Be modest, be caring- and considerate. But most of all let nature rule the chemistry of the male-female reaction, not your neurons- neurons=nervous, chemistry=productivity.Did my inability to grind prevent me from...?
    Oh for goodness sake, just be yourself! If grinding is not your thing then dont do it! Nerds are cool and very endearing. We love shy! Only do the comfortable thing. Dont worry if someone wants to hook up with you, we girls know how to ';engineer'; you into the perfect opportunity to do so. Be your good self.

    How would your parenting style and approach to discipline change if your kid / teen had a health issue?

    If for example you had a teenage daughter (17) with Hodgkin's (a type of cancer like 99% of the people who have it survive, but still sucks) which required horrible IV chemo twice a month (and btw, she's very needle phobic so that sucks even more!) and taking chemo by pill every single day that is now making her have to miss dance and the things she loves and forcing her to spend half her life sitting at home bored out of her mind, wouldn't you back off and give her more slack when she did actually feel awesome and well enough to do things and let her stay out longer for things like Halloween? Would you still ground a girl that has been through hell for relatively minor things like curfew? Bear in mind that lots of times she can't even go out anymore, so it's like she's grounded for life, and so when she does feel well enough to go out, she wants to stay out longer, which you would think a parent would understand. I'm just curious.How would your parenting style and approach to discipline change if your kid / teen had a health issue?
    A child is a child no matter what their aliments are. If they dont have a set of rules and consequences to go by, then how are they going to be productive adults(god willing they make it). My daughters suffer from kidney diseas and chronic asthma. Their life is a struggle every day. but they still have chores, they still have responsibility. there are many other people in this world that are sick and dont get special treatment.



    No matter what the disease is im sure it is hard. Ask my daughtersHow would your parenting style and approach to discipline change if your kid / teen had a health issue?
    I know this 15yr old girl, she has diabiets really bad, and is in the hospital all the time from either 400-500 blood sugar to being way to low, and her mom is WAY to easy on her about everything, this girl is a total brat because her mom feels really bad for her so she doesnt get grounded, she back talks constantly and shows disrespect to everyone including her parents and our pastor (and our pastor has done several good things for her, and she still treats him like he owes her something).

    She believes the world owes her everything because she has diabeties, and her mom treats her like a fragile piece of artwork.

    I do get it, she is sick, and has to take insulin every day but she shouldnt be allowed to act like that..



    So my answer is disipline should always be the same becuse if she gives you slack, you will walk all over her..



    A 17yr old should be able to go out every now and again, and if the 17yr old is grounded maybe let he/she go out for 2-3hrs and if they arent back within that time, never do it again.



    I had custody of my nephew for 3yrs (from age 10 to 13yrs old) and he had Hodgkins and he still got punished just like the other kids, and its hard, but if you let them always get slack, then they will know they can get you to say yes t what ever they want to.
    I would be more understanding of the kid.
    My 26 year old cousin, died two years ago of Hodgkin's decease. It was horrible on her mother, sister and the whole family. She left two young children behind and trust me, as a mother (my aunt), your whole world is turned upside down. It kills you to ';move into a hospital'; when the cancer can't be put in remission anymore. There was nothing that anyone was able to do anymore and the last week of her short life, my aunt, her mother, granted all her ';little wishes';, such as eating things she wasn't even able to swallow to bringing her with her wheelchair, to an amusement park and watch her children ride the ';mary go around';.

    Could you please tell me what you think of this excerpt from my story?

    “Why?” I asked, shaking hard in my attempt to restrain myself. Dark rage seethed my voice, but it was unable to hide the desperate pain. The loss. The emotional agony.



    “WHY?!” I roared, charging him again. Julian easily sidestepped me, but I spun around in an instant and my fist met the side of his face. I had never felt anything like this before. I had been angry, I had been hurt, but never like this.



    I felt like there was a huge, acid filled hole where my heart should have been, beating cold, black blood into my veins. Fire snarled in my chest and throat, burning up my insides. No amount of yelling or hitting was going to make it go away. My hands were itching to shred his flesh, and my eyes were stinging as fresh tears threatened to fall.



    It didn’t exactly help when Julian began laughing.



    “Why?” he mocked, casually brushing his cheek where I had struck him. “Whatever do you mean?”



    The room was tinted red and my ears rung furiously. I suddenly felt the strange urge to dig my nails into his skin and see those drops of crimson spill agonizingly slow.

    I growled, self-control slipping fast. Hands balled into fists so tight they turned my knuckles white shook at my sides.



    “Why did you have to do it?!” I demanded, murderous intent lacing my tone. “Why couldn’t you just let me have this one thing!”



    Now it was Julian’s turn to be angry.



    “One thing?” he repeated, outraged. “One thing!? Don’t you DARE try and turn this around so people pity you!”



    “IT’S NOT ABOUT ME!” I snarled, grabbing him by the front of the shirt and shaking him roughly, barely resisting the urge to snap his neck right then and there. “DON’T YOU GET IT? This has nothing to do with me!”



    “Who then?” Julian smirked, feeding the flames. “Who could possibly touch that hole you call a heart enough for not everything to be about you for once?”



    “HER!” I yelled, throwing him to the ground. “THE GIRL THAT’S LAYING IN THERE WITH A BULLET IN HER CHEST! THE ONE YOU ****ING SHOT!”



    I felt like I was going to throw up. Saying those words brought the whole truth crashing down on me once more.



    She wasn’t going to make it. She really wasn’t going to make it this time. No matter how fast they moved, there was no way she would be able to pull through.



    Not this time…all those times before…she had always been so strong…and now it was over…everything we had worked for, everything she had dreamed for, everything that could have been…



    It was over.



    I wouldn’t be seeing her smile anymore. I wouldn’t ever hear her laugh ever again. I wouldn’t hear her tease me when I knew I was being an idiot.



    No more nights spent watching the stars, listening to her talk about the dreams she hoped to fulfill, because those dreams had been taken from her. No more plans over where we were going to go or what we were going to do once things got better, for now things would never be better. No more holding her at night or falling asleep to her heartbeat, because now her hands were cold and her heart was still…



    I didn’t realize I was crying until I saw the look of shock on Julian’s face and my brain finally registered the tears flowing down my face. I did nothing to stop them. I knew it would do no good.



    “I loved her…” I whispered, voice cracked and broken. I could barely stand, I was shaking so hard. “I really loved her…”



    And I never even got the chance to say it.



    Wow. This is by far the most depressing part of my story to date. It's a rough draft version, of course. This scene is supposed to be very powerful, and really upsetting to the reader. So, did any of you get sad by reading it? I know it would have more effect if you knew the characters but I tried my best, eh?

    Thanks!Could you please tell me what you think of this excerpt from my story?
    That was great!! It is a rough draft so I can understand that part :D. Keep building it and yes it was upsetting for me to read. I can feel the main character's anger and sadness. You nailed it!! Also the only thing I can suggest is you have to many capitals, just put 'em in lowercase with a ( ! ) at the end so the reader and understand that the character is yelling. Also I had no idea were the scene was taking place so my mind put them in a public laundry room in a apartment. You can decide where to put them but that's were they were in my mind. :D You are an awesome writer!!Could you please tell me what you think of this excerpt from my story?
    Extremely intense, I liked it though. It did seem upsetting. Your description of the scene was amazing. From that except I have two comments.

    1. Keep on writing

    2. Wish I could read more
    it was really good. very intense and expressive. i loved it. i pictured it on a brick road in front of an old church while it was threatening to rain.

    Grinding with a girl?

    i grinded my first time last year at a dance and now im in high school and thats all people did at homecoming

    my date danced really fast and i couldnt keep up so we just decieded to dance with other people

    is it ok that i get hard when i do it

    and how do you know if you are doing it right?Grinding with a girl?
    yea ull get hard when u do it.girls get wet too .thats the point basicly, the more u do it the more comfortable ull become n you might not get as turned on as easialy,,,n ull noe basicly ur doin it right when it feels good and yall ';flow'; togeather..hope this helpedGrinding with a girl?
    Practice makes perfect!
    First of all, relax - don't think so much or you'll mess it up. Listen to the beat of the music and move with it. If you still don't feel right, watch the people on MTV and try and mimic them. Watch yourself in front of a mirror just to make sure you look alright. I was a terrible dancer until my friends helped me out and used many of the aforementioned tactics. As for the getting hard problem, I know girls who have made a big deal about this sort of thing. Even though it's a natural reaction that you can't do much about, sometimes the girl feels it. Lots of them are too young or too dumb to understand basic biological functions. So... be careful, I guess?
    well i use to get hard but i dont any more because ive gone to enough dances. what i do is just dance. dont think about the chicks around u and grindin up on you(yes this is hard but just have fun) and then agian u can always wear like boxer breifs so it doesnt stick straight out. lol well how it helps ya.

    How is this book so far?

    I took a quick sideways glance when I heard someone cough. It was Irene Rotter , the typical blonde *****. She sneered at me and threw a piece of paper toward me – I let it fall to the ground. That girl was a mean witch that was all that was to it and I didn’t tolerate her.

    I was sitting in my sitting in my sophomore English homeroom class. When Mrs. Trowser walked in . I picked up the paper before she would come over snatch it up and read the mean things inside. Even though all the teachers known that I was an outcast with only a few friends I don’t want to remind them.

    She came into the room and cleared her throat and said “ We have a new student from Eroupe id like to introduce him. His name is Abaddon Live , but you can call him A.J.

    Is she serious Abaddon means the god of destruction . No wonder he switched his name to A.J. . I wonder if his parents were on crack when they named him.

    I was looking down at my notebook when he walked in. Then all the kids gasped. At the sound of that i looked up. He was the most gorgeous thing I have ever seen. With his silk black hair percing black eyes with high cheek bones and a perfectly carved nose his face was perfect. And as for his body lets just say any model would die for it.

    He feet glided across the floor to approach Mrs. Trowser. Every student watched in amazement as he walked. Nobody was talking they were all stunned by his appearance – speechless. Wich was a first for Irene. I half expected her to turn to her best friend Madison and say “he is like a gift from the gods” but no. nothing.

    He finally reached Mrs. Trowser. She straightened up and said “everyone say hello to Abaddon” – he gave her a little look and she added “ oh in sorry I mean A.J.” Everyone but me jumped to the opportunity to say hello.

    She cut off the class “ who would like to be his tour guid of our school today?”

    Every other hand (including my Best friend Haven’s hand) shot up. I took a look around I was obviously the only one not obsessed with our new student. Sur he was very handsome, but htat nothing to do with his personality . he was probally just going to be some jerk -off foot ball palyer who will make fun of us.

    My teacher eyes came straight to me, I swear if she picks me- “ I see your very eager to meet our new student , Rita your can be the guide.” Her voice was thick with sarcasam. Before I could reply she injected “she is the one In the black outfit go sit with her. ”

    Again he gracefully started to walk over to me, but this time it was different people were dissopionted and moaned annoyingly. I heard Irene whisper “ I hope she dosent rub off on her” it didn’t bother me though I was use to insultes.

    When he came to the desk he said “hello my name is A.J. You must be Rita.” I just nodded my head. But then I heard Irene sickly sweet voice chime in

    “ Hi im Irene it’s such a pleasure to meet you , you can come it lunch with us today if you want.”

    “No thanks but I rather sit with my guide” he flashed a stunning smile at me while he rejected her.

    “Nah you should sit with her” I told him, keep the burden off my hands.

    “ No I want to sit with you.” Another smile that made me a bit light headed. He procedd to sit down next to me. He had the sweetest aroma I have ever wiffed. It wasn’t that stupid axe stuff that all the boys thought smelt great. It gave me a head ache. But this was like honey suckle with a twist of vinalli. I almost asked him what the smell was but shut me mouth before it came out. What a weird question that would have been. I don’t need anymore reason for people to mock me and my friends. Class wenty on even though no one paid attention to the teacher all of it was derectied toward A.J. he seemed comfortable with were he was and kept quiet. Finally first period ended.

    “What do you have next?” asked A.J. ,

    I replied “Spanish.”

    He looked truly dissopointed “ oh I have math, can you show me the way there?”

    “sure.”

    We almost made it out the door when my bff Haven apoached “hey A.J” I think she was litterley drooling. Such a boy fanatic.

    “Hey” he replied

    That is when she started to hyprovenelate. Gosh she needed to calm down it was just a boy. Aboy with the looks of a underwear model but nothing special. I introduced her and she giggled insanely. He probally thought she had mental issues. I questioned that myself sometimes. We went to my locker to get my Spanish stuff . I dropped him off to math and told him id meet him here at the end of the period so we could go to gym together. Me and Haven walked to Spanish together

    “did you see him!” she screeched as soon as he closed the door.

    ”of course I saw him I sat next to him.” That was the obvios point of it all. I got what meant that did you see how hot he was. I did but I wasn’t going to say that.

    Then she exploded into her rant how beautiful I was and needed a boyfriend. Id admit I was pretty. I had long black hair with percing green eyes that made my cheeHow is this book so far?
    Good work on spelling and maybe change the character names to something a little less obvious. Also it seems like you got your inspiration from Twilight. Its OK if you did authors do it all the time but make it so that you barley notice i the similarity's. And '; All the students gasped';? that doesn't really fit. No one gasps anymore. Maybe they were astounded. A dictionary and a thesaurus are you best friends in writing you know!And how would the teacher know he likes to be called A.J.? maybe he says it or he is being mysterious and whispers it to her. Other then a few other similar mistakes it great! :DHow is this book so far?
    That was good!!!!



    Answer mine

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
    is aj a vampire? cuz if he is....i'm never going to read that book....no offense...twilight was just too much...if he isn't, i'm willing to read it. sounds good so far...plz say he's a normal person...
    i seriously want to read this book!!!!
    There are many spelling and grammar mistakes that are inexcusable. Both Word and Y!A have spell check features --if it is underlined in red, it is wrong.



    I'm going to be honest here, this story is boring(IMO) and predictable. I'm guessing the 'new unbelievably hot boy' is going to fall in love with 'your outcast but super pretty girl,' and it will turn out that he actually is the God of Destruction or some other similarly powered being?
    You're very talented.

    The spelling errors were annoying, and the plot was a bit... unoriginal, but it's not bad :)
    I am also a writer, and I'm glad you are so passionate about it that you are willing to write a book. Keep it up!
    it's good for someone as young as you. Don't give up writing because one day you can get better and maybe be a famous author.
    wow you go girl! i like that. especially the axe part lol :) I`m making a book too but i might post it later
    It was good. Just the grammar... Keep it up!
    Im 11 to and wrote a book! Well its not finished.... u write great! I hate grammer i have so many ideas to write and little time to fix the errors! I forgot to tell u dont let Matri get u down! She said my story sucked to but alot of ppl out of yahoo answers [all my friends at school] said it rocked! Dont let her discourage u even though its predictable at the last minute take ur story and make readers read it over and over again to finally understand wat just happend! Make sure u keep the readers on the edge! Just when they kiss or something have her have something bad happen! Everyone would wonder huh? And Marti wouldn't even know wats happening next!
    For an 11-year old mind, you're pretty great! Honestly, the spelling and grammar mistakes were kinda irritating, but you'll learn...its pretty nice..(i especially like the 'axe' bit!)



    Keep writing..you're bound to get better and better..!
    reminds me too much of twilight
    I guess like some others noted...for an 11-year-old, this is a sizable achievement...but remember that you are still 11. While I don't doubt your writing skills, you cannot write masterfully at your age. You can have great ideas, but life experience and the study of other literary works is what can really make an author. You need to develop your own style and know the vast type of literature there is in this world. Wait till you've finished high school and went through all basic classes of writing and then get back to it, and I'm sure you'll be more satisfied with your writing.
    Beautiful but if I where you I would read up a little of P.A. Salvatore's righting. he is a master of word play and I find it very helpful if I'm righting.

    Geat a load of this:?

    My ex who couldnt wait to dump me 5-6 yrs ago, and run off with some douche and have a kid from him(all within a short amount of time), is now, supposedly, having marriage problems. Well, after not speaking to one another for the better part of 5+ years, she now ';all of a sudden like'; calls/contacts me, and asks me if i want to do something w/her? I couldn't stop laughing when she called and bitched to me about how bad this guy and her are fighting, and how she's thinking of ending it w/him(marriage). She has a kid too.



    When we dated before, she would run me down to my friends about my job and what not. Then, couldnt wait to get rid of me(or so she claimed) to anyone within shouting distance. I was a ';bad guy'; apparently, yet, worshipped the ground the girl walked on, never hurt a hair on her head, and told her MANY times I would die for her.



    Now...this! This is funny, I have to admit. She made my life a living hell for some time, and now, when things aren't going the right way for her, she's ';all of a sudden like'; back in my life and wanting to do things? is she mental? Why do i always have nutty women, who cant seem to want to stay with me, suddenly want to get back w/me?



    I'm honestly at a loss for words, or what to do. I know...if i stick it to this nutty broad, I'll come back to regret it. Plus, I do not want tod eal with her, as long as she's married. Not fair to anyone, especially her kid.



    What to do, what to do? Seems like I'm not such a ';bad guy'; afterall?Geat a load of this:?
    She still thinks all the exact same things she thought when she dumped you. She's just scared of being alone. She was like that before you met her. That's why she jumped from you to this other guy. She doesn't even care if she gets along with them well (you, her new ex).



    You, on the other hand, always have nutty women because you like nuts. Even when you know the water's shallow, you jump right in.



    When I look in my crystal ball, I see a woman in a bikini, walking around holding a sign over her head that says ';ROUND 2';.Geat a load of this:?
    Tell her that you are sorry that she is having problems but you can't help her fix them. Then you get the pleasure of telling her that she should have stayed with you and that she done you wrong one time and there will not be another time.



    You said it yourself, you will be setting yourself up for getting your heart broken.



    Leave her alone
    tell her to keep moving on to another ex. that is pretty funny
    Keep out of it. You sound like a really nice bloke how do you get mixed up with these awful women?
    What do you mean : ';What to do?';

    You know exactly what to do! You do nothing!
    ';Sorry, that things aren't going well for you right now but, I can't help you.'; Click.
    Perhaps this sort of thing happens to you simply because you are a good guy and certain people think they can take advantage of that. I'm glad to see they can't! Hope you find the good lady you deserve.
    Tell here a fake story about ';your friend'; a girl who got dumped by her boyfriend...(It's going to be what she did to you.) And then ask her what she would do. Let her realize from another perspective that she is crazy, and sad that she would stoop so low to think that you're dumb enough to think that you may have that spark...the one time...hope you get the picture.GL
    sounds like shes afraid of being alone. or maybe she knows she cant make it on her own and needs a man to help her and since you didnt treat her too badly in reality, she want the security of being with you
    You say this ALWAYS happens too you? It's because you make eye contact with stupids and crazies. ARE YOU RETARDED? It's not funny! Do you have 2 feet? RUN DON'T WALK! If you were my kid I'd kick your a.s.s.

    I am a girl: How do I grind?

    ok be specific. My bf is 2 years older than me. We are going to a ';club'; for middle schoolers called SNS (Saturday Night at the Siskey). He already asked me if I was gonna dance with him, and if I wanted to grind. He knows how to grind but I dont. I dont wanna like do anything REALLY dirty, so but please tell me exactly how you do it. and please dont use cuss words, symbols for cuss words, or words like pelvis. But Im sorry, I know this ? pops up A LOT. But none of them helped. I have never danced infront of a person, so I don't wanna embarress myself or my bf. Also my 2nd ? is what are some other dances (explain them please) that I can do with some of my (girl) friends?I am a girl: How do I grind?
    Sweety, I think from the way you wrote your question you are not the type to grind. You seem like a nice polite young lady (like my niece) who would never get out in front of a bunch of other people and grind her private parts against the guys private parts as if it was ok just because the other kids are doing it. It is nasty. At least it's nasty at your age.

    Do you know about YouTube.com? You can search for dance clips and clips of grinding.
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  • How do you hook up with a girl at a party?

    OK for example yesterday i went on a party bus for a friends birthday. I am starting to get a lof more confident with girls and stuff. But im still a little worried. SO i was grinding with this girl for a few songs. And i wanted to do more with this girl. SO i have a few questions.



    1. How could i tell that she wants to do more too (hooking up/lapdance/etc). I would be grinding but not know if i should keep going or try n do more.



    2. If i build the confidence to do so, how do i get a girl to like come with me to the seats. LIke i would be grinding but say i want to hook up with her or something. How do i do that? Do i just like pull her 2 the side? or what? should i have her sit on my lap?



    IDKHow do you hook up with a girl at a party?
    Dude trust me to get a chick to hook up with you at a party is easy, but theres on little step get them a litlle tipsy as douchelike as is it seems it gets them loose. but dont drink em to deathHow do you hook up with a girl at a party?
    just grind with her and if she approves then ask her if she would like to get some drinks

    after that then ask her if she ';wants to get out of here';

    XDDD

    How Is This BEGINNING of a story???

    If someone had told me yesterday at lunch that my life was going to take a turn for the


    worst today, I would have laughed so hard I would have shot blue Gatorade out of my nose all


    over Penny Brown’s new one hundred dollar leather jacket. I had everything I could possibly


    want- didn’t I? I was the head popular, even as a band geek. I had a boyfriend who thought I


    was his moon, his sun, and his stars. And, most importantly, I had a sister who would always be


    there for me. And I knew that without a doubt; even if she was one of the most unfriendly


    person on the face of the earth.


    But now here I sat in third period algebra, watching two new kids step slowing into the


    classroom, cautiously, as if there was something to be afraid of. Two things bothered me about


    this:


    1) It was a week before Christmas break. Didn’t the school stop accepting people around


    this time? We’re not some normal person school. We’re all advanced in some way or another.


    There was no way these two could be good at anything but making deals for crake.


    2) I knew I it was going to be hard to hold my social status with these two at school.


    They were both gorgeous- there was no making my way around that.


    Both had hair that was black as night, maybe even darker. Both were tall, thin, pale, and


    walked so gracefully that it was like their life was a ballet. But, the most intriguing thing about


    them, was their eyes. The boy, who’s hand were in the back pockets of his black skinny jeans as


    he whispered to Mrs. Walker, had eyes the color of purple violets- but lighter. The girl though,


    she was something else. Her eyes were red; a bright, vicious red as she glanced the room with a


    devious smile on her face.


    Mrs. Walker nodded, then pointed to a seat beside Penny and another beside my


    boyfriend David. The boy walked over very slowly, then sat down beside Penny. Beside her he


    looked like a dark cloud in his skinny jeans, tight white Fall Out Boy t-shirt (which showed off his


    fantastic abs if I do say so myself), and black combat boots that made a loud sound each time


    they made contact with the ground. The girl, much more quickly than the boy, glided past me


    with a glare and then plopped down into the chair beside David. Turning her head slightly, she


    flashed him a dazzling smile. My face turned red as I directed my attention back to Mrs. Walker


    as she cleared her throat to begin talking.


    “Well class,” she began, her voice ringing through the classroom like a wind chime, “we


    will have two new students joining us this year. Chris and Raven Nixon. It is a pleasure to have


    you in my class.” She finished with a smile, then turned around reluctantly and began babbling


    about proper ways to find variables- but apparently I wasn’t the only one who couldn’t pay


    attention to shrilly speech. Raven was passing notes with my David.


    I don’t blame him though; she was one of the most beautiful people on the face of the


    earth. Her long black hair shimmered against her paper pale skin. A strapless, yellow bubble


    dress hugged the top half of her figure, and then the bubble came out around her thighs. She


    wore shiny black ankle boots, clunky black bracelets on her right wrist, and a cross with black


    diamond’s on a silver chain that- when she moved a certain way in the light, looked like it was


    bleeding.How Is This BEGINNING of a story???
    Not bad, although I got a little confused by the purple and red eyes. Is this going to be a supernatural story? Or are those colored contacts because these people are trying to be strange?





    What's a head popular? No need to put 1) and 2). Just say 'First,' and then, 'Second.' Also, what is crake? When editing, shorten it as much as you can. For instance.





    'This wasn't a school for normal people; everone was advanced in some way or another.'





    Nice and simple. I'm not sure I'm buying that they would immediately become popular just for being gorgeous. They sound a little freaky at first glance.





    When writing in the first person, don't say your face turned red unless you're looking in the mirror. How would you know? Explain that your face felt hot with anger or jealousy instead. Also, you never want to say 'if I do say so myself.' You're not writing a letter to a friend.





    Keep working on it though, good luck!How Is This BEGINNING of a story???
    I think this story is pretty good, although it needs a little work with grammar. What I don't like is how perfect her life sounds at the beginning, about how, even though she's a band geek, she's the most popular person in school, and how she has a perfect boyfriend too. I just don't like that part, or how it started, in the very beginning. The first sentence, I didn't like, but I continued reading, since it seemed like it had potential. I like the idea of your story though, I'm just not sure it's for me. Your character seems a little perky and optimistic, and I can't relate to that at all. I'm a pessimist, and can never see the silver lining on every cloud (unless it's in a sarcastic way). But, I think this is a story that others may be able to relate to. By the way, I got a little ticked when I saw Fall Out Boy show up on Chris's T-shirt. If you want him to be a real punk/emo/skater/scene/etc. and not a poser, then you might have to do a little research on more punk bands. If you knew a lot about FOB, then you'd know that most of the people that listen to them are teenage girls, and they're more pop-punk. Same thing with All Time Low. If you want more of a hard-rock band that's still in current times, then go for something non-mainstream, I personally think it'll enhance the punk image you were going for. More of a non-mainstream band like Asking Alexandria or something more heard of like Bring Me The Horizon. Go for something close to screamo, or hard-rock, maybe some metal. (Sorry about my rant on bands, the FOB part just ticked me off.) It's pretty good, though. Keep writing!





    Could anyone help me with my writing? Please?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
    The way you practice is the way you perform. First let me say you are a talented writer. Grammatically your work needs cleaning up. Your work needs work on style and Grammar and I would suggest you get a copy of Websters 21st Century Guide to Speech, Style and Grammar.





    You roped me in from the first sentence. (That's Good, these days you can't waste time like Tolstoy does) Don't use the word ';that'; unnecessarily. Don't use 2 words when one will do. Your first sentence should have begun with Yesterday, if someone---your boyfriend thinking you were his sun, moon and stars, you don't have to repeat ';his'; it's understood with the first his. You need to break up your paragraphs and double space your sentences.





    You are good. I'm thinking you are easily high school or Junior high but you are GOOD! You just need to learn the correct way to write for publishers because I see no reason why this story will not become a best seller for the 'tween generation. CONGRATULATIONS.
    It sounds good, just check some of your grammar. Is this supposed to be like another Twilight or something? Not to be rude.
    Drop the 1) you don't do that in fiction. It was too long and you told us how attractive they were too many times. We got it. The description of the what they were wearing was good. The opening is fine, I don't know what relationship you are going to have with them. Is it a contest to see who is more popular or is he/she going to steal your boyfriend? Are they (Please don't make them vampires!) something more than new kids in school? Maybe you could describe the setting, the weather outside, the temperature, the smells, etc. Make it relate to how these two kids are going to affect the story. You told it in first person and you have a nice voice to your writing. I liked that the most. But, again, no vampires!
    Quite good as long as they don't turn out to be vampires and she doesn't fall for Chris.
    OMG. WHERE'S THE REST?!





    lol. I was reading it then i got to the end and i was dissapointed that it ended already. lol





    you've got to tell me what happens, who are these new people?


    OMG. I GOT TO KNOW! lol























    (or you can just send me the finished copy) *wink wink*

    How is this poem for my girlfriend?

    Its been a battle from the start

    Since that day you stole my heart



    I wasn’t sure what to do

    From the time I first fell in love with you



    I remember seeing you on a walk

    But I was too shy to stop and talk



    I was glad when I made that first move

    Still worried about friends that I thought I would lose



    But that move was the best thing I’ve done

    And from all the other guys, I have won



    I few times I thought I should quit

    But I thought I would have regretted it



    And I would have, but now your mine

    From now to the end of time



    You make me feel great even when I’m as low as the ground

    Baby girl, you make my heart spin around



    There’s times when you think I don’t trust you

    Its not that, I care about you, and trust I do



    There’s people out there who do like you

    But none of them like you, as much as I do



    When the past is there to haunt

    Just call me whenever you want



    When there’s no one there to turn to

    Just remember I will always be there for you



    Babe to me you will always come first

    Because you made my heart burst



    There will be times when we will fight

    But in the end it will keep us tight



    When you are in my sight

    I know there will always be some light



    I will always be there for you

    No matter what situation you get into



    Girl when I’m away from you

    Something is missing and I don’t know what to do



    When ever you feel alone

    Just call me on my phone



    If we have to we can talk all night

    We can talk until the world turns right



    I always seem to say and do the wrong thing

    that’s why I am shocked I am here, happy enough to sing



    To me love will always be a mystery

    But our love will make history



    And its because of you my life is set

    Here are 2 things you should never forget:



    From everything we did and will do

    I will always be glad that I am with you



    No matter what you do or say I will always love you

    And I know that you will always love me too







    and by the way, i never written a poem for anyone before, this is my first one. how is it? out of 100 lol;p



    star if you like itHow is this poem for my girlfriend?
    thats great! i wish my boyfriend would write me a poem. shell love it. its a 100.How is this poem for my girlfriend?
    It's cute!
    ahh I remember 5th grade. Good times!
    I honestly have yet to meet a woman that is still into poetry and that sort of stuff.



    It may have been cool in the 11th century but times have changed bro.
    It's really really cute. Trust me, when guys do something from the heart, it really means something to the girl thats receiving it. :]
    awwwwwwwwwwwwww! your gf is an incredibly lucky girl =) but just a suggestion... i think it may be a tad too long. Cut down a few paragraphs and it will be perfect! 80/100 noice work!! =D
    You're in high school, aren't you? Junior high?
    well, the rhyming is pretty forced and static like ';history and mystery'; not all poems need to rhyme. but if it's from the heart that's all that matters.



    i'd say...50/100
    Its nice...lol a mark out of 100, this isn't an exam paper...but seeing as you wanted a mark...85/100.
    wow i thought that was really good :D
    You wrote this? No way! You should totally like copyright this!







    Oh em gee....
    It really cute and anyway the poem is your and you can write how your feel it don't have rhymer. I hope she like's it because it really good.
    its nice and shell probably love it just dont write one or give her gifts for no reason too often or you will come onto her too strong and she will lose attraction
    hi i loved it you are right to the point good luck to you and your girl you should write more poem to share with us good luck give it a 100%
    This is awesome. Truth be told, that fact that it was written by you alone will win her over. It shows her just how deep you're thought actually run when it comes to her.
    Instead of ';I few times i thought i should quit';. Instead put ';The few times i thought i should quit';



    Instead of ';Because you made my heart burst'; put make instead of made. So it will be ';Because you make my heart burst';



    ';If we have to, we can talk all night';, better with a comma



    Other than that, i think your rhyming is done well. And the poem is sweet
    80 It's adorable! It's a little too long for my taste, but if she's into the mushy stuff, keep it just the way it is.



    There were a few typos:



    ';I few times I thought I should quit';

    ';And I would have, but now your mine'; (should be you're)

    ';There’s times when you think I don’t trust you'; (There are)

    ';But none of them like you, as much as I do'; (unnecessary comma)

    ';And its because of you my life is set'; (should be it's)
    Don't worry, I would never dream of stealing your poem, so don't flatter yourself.



    She'll know you love her, and appreciate the effort, but in all honesty that was one of the worst poems I've ever read. 20/100(just for the effort).
    well sweetie, that is very sweet that you care about her that much i have to say though that you sound like a little love sick puppy dog. just dont wear your heart on your sleve and make sure she really makes you happy and truely likes you for who you are, i have written and won many many awards for poetry these is very good for a begginer and for your information poetry DOES NOT have to rhyme ever heard of a sonnet, a free verse..they dont rhyme very well... but i would grade it an E for effort and im sure she will love it just because you wrote it just for her good luck with her and im here to help any time and by the way im only a freshman in high school and ive won two national first place titles in poetry so im might know what im talking about, so best of luck to you and if there are any more questions just ask me and i have one request of you please make mine the best answer..haha
    i'm stealing this.

    At dances how to dance lol?

    i just got out of a private school and i knew the ppl all my life so we would just jump around and make a fool out of ourselves on the dance floors. well homecomming is comming up and im going to my first public school and i dont know how to dance at all.



    the only thing i do is grind with girls and on r

    rock songs jump around lol



    is grinding the only dancing at dances?At dances how to dance lol?
    Yeah basically lol.At dances how to dance lol?
    Haha. Dancing at parties is soo natural. Don't stress over it. It's very easy. You may feel uncomfortable or idiotic but you'll start having so much fun that you won't care what others think about you!

    Enjoy the dance and have fun!
    go up to all the boys and say, i wanna fu..ck you and then grind with them, you will be the coolest chick in town =]
    well dancing with your friends is like shake your butt and have fun kind of stuff. If a guy asks you to dance with them then, yes you grind. Well that is from my experience that is all pretty much, I haven't met a guy who hasn't grinded....
    you're stupid and dont be callin my sister trailer trash. cause you dont know the first thing about us
    your a dumb *** you don't need to answer my question unless you know the answer!!! NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR GAY *** DANCE MOVES SWEETIE!!!

    How do I act at Homecoming when my date is a really good ';clean'; dancer?

    So I've been to homecoming before but and danced there before too, except by dancing I just mean like grinding with girls(I'm a terrible dancer). However, this year I asked a girl who is the type of girl who would never dance like that and to make things worse for me I know that she dances outside of school so she's really good. I know how to act like before and after the dance but how do I dance with her without her getting freaked out? Thanks a bunch!!How do I act at Homecoming when my date is a really good ';clean'; dancer?
    Tell her you don't know how to dance (without mentioning the grinding part) and ask if she's teach you. If you approach it the right way, she'll probably think it's cute. And cute is always a plus.

    Guys groundwork/rolling/newaza/wres鈥?with girls?

    when working out rolling on the ground with girls, are you guys ever self conscious? firstly girls tend to be physically weaker than guys, secondly there is a social concept grounded into us that men should be gentlemen, thirdly, a lot of places on a girls' body are out of bounds to us (by decorum) such as boobs, etc. anyone ever got into any embarrassing situation? e.g. accidental boob grab, how did you deal with it?



    for the girls, how did you react in such a situation? do you ever feel uncomfortable rolling with the guys?Guys groundwork/rolling/newaza/wres鈥?with girls?
    Yeah, once, it just turned into a suckfest.



    Real talk.Guys groundwork/rolling/newaza/wres鈥?with girls?
    i roll around with girl's vaginas
    Just a quick answer from personal experience- it is all about the amount of experience each person has and the comfort level of everyone who is participating. If you are uncomfortable, watch how she handles grappling with guys. If you are still unsure, exclude yourself and wait until another day.



    It really helps if the girl knows what she is doing and has experience. Those girls can handle themselves and it is a positive experience for them to roll with people below them to show that it is possible and for the lower level to learn respect. Trust me, in BJJ, experience is the key and you will get tapped by a girl many times over if she has been doing it longer. It isn't about out and out strength, it is about leverage, positioning and strategy. Smaller men or women routinely school bigger opponents, hence the beauty of martial arts.



    Last thing, I think it is safe to say grabbing anyone's *** or crotch is generally not acceptable. Incidental/accidental stuff can happen and it is usually brushed off. If they think you have a perverted intent, guy or girl, it may get ugly and uncomfortable quickly. The best way to go is to get to know the person, maybe let them know if you are married/taken, not single them out as the only person you want to grapple with and keep comments to a minimum.

    My daughter in need?help how deal with her?

    My daughter is great girl but she hateful girl. She gets A's and B's and works very hard in school.But She's 16. Also she has no social skills and she stays in her bedroom 16 hours a day. But she has a dark side, she hits her brother and kicks him.She watch very violent

    tv shows and also reads very violent books.

    She alienates herself at school. She's very anti-social person and has no friends(nor does she cares to have any). When I spank her she doesn't cry. How do I ground a girl who stays in her room all day? She has no care for family actives? She said that, She hate all human beings. How do I handled her?My daughter in need?help how deal with her?
    Sounds like she needs to get some help. Its one thing to be a little anti-social, I know plenty of people who would rather stay home and be in their room than be out with other people.



    But combined with the other behavior, it could mean very bad things. She could be depressed, and possibly suicidal. Also the violent behavior is not good either. Try talking to her, or talk to a counselor at school about her.



    Good luck!My daughter in need?help how deal with her?
    Mayb she needs a shrink.....
    i very much think she needs psychological help..seriously..its not normal AT ALL!!
    ground her by making her look 4 friends or make her take ur son somewhere u can make he go out
    Take her to a therapist.

    She is suffering from major depression, and if you don't do anything, she will probably end up commiting suicide. (i am sorry to say this, but you need to know)



    So you should call a psychaitrist or a therapist.



    Jack.
    You spank a 16 year old girl? No wonder she's acting out!!!! That is SO wrong! I'd act out too if my parent was that ignorant and abusive! My gosh!
    try to talk to her about it? im sure its just a phase, maybe she just needs some more love and attention? Kids can be really rude so maybe she is being made fun of and that is causing her to shut herself away?
    She sounds a bit like me...just let her know that you care about her. Her social life is her own choice...she will likely come out of it eventually, or realize how she's actually hurting herself. A shrink is an option, but sometimes that pushes kids the other way.
    I'd hate your faking guts too if you spanked me..especially if I was 16. You think siblings arnt susposed to fight?..my two sisters have been fighting sense they were born and their 9 and 13 now.
    maybe she needs a shrink, no joke, really take her to a theripistt...they might seem to help..................GOOD LUCK!
    I think she doesn't really like who she is. She sounds isolated and depressed. You spank a 16 yr old????? WOW! Sounds like she lacked parenting as a youngster, was allowed too much freedom and no one bonded with her as she was young. I think you should be her freind as well as her mother. Is she suicidal? When did you start noticing this behavior? When a teenager begins to want to be alone more, is when you needed to bond closer to her. I think you have waited too long to do that, so I guess her best bet now would be a school counselor, go in and ask her for advice on how to get her to open up more, explain her behavior and see what she suggests, sometimes there are issues you don't know about that a counselor has more insight on, as far as behavior in a classroom, she can meet with each of her teachers privately and ask for their thoughts on her behavior in their classrooms. Try that first and if they suggest counseling or a medicine to help her with depression~~ just to get her to the point where she realizes things were a bit out of whack, it could benefit her greatly to see this change.
    what are u doing spanking a 16 year old?!
    well, if you really want to punish her, and don't forget, you're the parent, and you are in charge, take her out somewhere. FORCE her to be social. But don't over do it, do it in slow doses, small outings to public places, not too long, but as time goes on, make the trips a bit longer.

    try to find something that may interest her, if she is into books, try to get her to do some sort of writing workshop. You most definitely need to find some sort of activity that she better express her anger. It is completely unfair to the sibling that he has to take all her anger and frustration. This is her issue, not his. and she certainly needs to understand that.

    Also, i don't know if you have already tried, but, try to understand where she is coming from. maybe there is something going on at school that you don't know about. teachers are always available to call, you can ask if kids seem to be bothering her there, or even if teachers are giving her a hard time.

    16 is tough, girls tend to be most self conscious at this age, try boosting her morale, tell her she looks good, whether you believe what you are saying or not. make her believe it, it could help.

    And then there is always a chance it could be a medical problem, depression is very common among teenage girls, and you should see a doctor if you think that it could be depression. It could be dangerous if you leave the depression unattended to.

    Whatever the case, make sure you try to be supporting, but don't over do it. 16 is hard, i know because that is my age, and it's a very influential time also. so try to make an influence on her, before it's too late. oh, and spanking at 16? i think she's a bit too old for that. but you're the parent
    does she wear black and check her Wrists if there is cuts she is emo
    Bless you for being a caring Mom. This behavior at 16 is more common than you think. There are several things you could try.

    You could talk to her school councilor, they have experience in this age group and might offer you some good advice, they may work with her, or they may recommend counseling.

    You could seek counciling on your own.

    She's only 16 so you still have control over her. I would urge you to forbid her to watch anything that's violent and not allow any violent materials in the house.

    I wonder, does she have a favorite teacher? Or maybe an adult in her life whom she admires that could be the answer you're looking for? Maybe she would open up to that person and that person could mentor and guide her. Don't give up on her. She will change in time if she gets the kind of help she needs.
    The fact that you still spank your sixteen year old daughter disturbs me. While this is often acceptable in younger children, your daughter is well past that age. there are other ways to punish a sixteen year old. take away her TV privileges. take away her books, etc. The reason she isn't crying when you spank her is because spanking really doesn't hurt enough to make you cry, esp. if you are over the age of ten. It really is probably just ticking her off.

    The fact that she hits and kicks her brother is unacceptable. Grounding is not going to stop this. She needs to understand why this is wrong, and you need to sit her down and explain to her that no matter how she feels inside, it is not okay to take those feelings out on others. I think the way she shows this physical violence to her brother is because you show this violence to her, and i believe it is her way of getting back at you for humiliating her.



    Now, the hating all people and locking her self in her room are all pretty standard sixteen year old behavior. I remember being sixteen, you couldn't DRAG me to a family affair. Also, violent TV and books are all pretty standard among teens as well. I wouldn't worry about it.



    all in all, nothing here really alarms me. I would take away tv privelages, like i said above, until her behavior improves to where you can bare her presence in the house. However, as you start instilling these new values and rules, you need to let her know that no matter what, you love her.
    I believe she is very depressed. There are a number of studies out there about this. She can be suicidal where as she may take out other people with her if she snaps.She is very angry and has no one to talk to. Yes you are there but you are to close to her. She needs to talk to a therapist As Soon As Possible. It is very serious.
    Have you ever considered the possibility that she may have asberger's syndrome, because I have it along with epilepsy and crohn's disease(lucky me), and what you are describing sounds a bit like me. I do not have much of a social life and it actually doesn't bother me, and I don't care for family outings either. As for the fighting with her brother, that's normal and on the easy side of fighting believe me. She may not be depressed, but instead just misunderstood.
    16 and you spank her??!!!



    Next time use a paddle until she does cry.
    She is too old to be spanked, take all electronics out of her room, and get some help for her, good luck
    it sounds like she is need of councelling. Also at 16 I think she is too old for spanking

    How do I avoid being so awkward at dances?

    My school has a dance tomorrow and I'm most likely going to it. The problem is that I hate dancing and I suck at it, but people always try to make me dance. The only reason I really go to the dances is to hang out with friends/girls and grind with girls, lol. I basically feel awkward doing the simplest dances and even grinding sometimes. How do I not be so awkward and afraid to dance at the dance tomorrow? Idk if I should have asked this in another section but I didn't know which 1 to ask it in, but any help would be appreciatedHow do I avoid being so awkward at dances?
    You sound like a player.How do I avoid being so awkward at dances?
    take a few shots...JK DONT. practice in your room..and trust me when your in the dance, you'll look WEIRDER not dancing and being tense....so if your worried about looking weird than NO ONE WILL NOTICE YOU IF YOUR WEIRD AS LONG AS YOUR DANCING....just dance and be hyper, trust me i am sure there will be way more people who look like fools there, i doubt you'll be looked at weirdly dont by shy
    You don't have to do anything! You won't even talk to these people in like 5 years.
    I'd recommened just asking someone and let them lead. its not to bad having a girl lead (their usually better dancers) and let them grind on u its way better lol
    Dancing is awkward. From the Chicken Dance to Grinding.

    All you have to do is be confident and just focus on having fun. Life's short so you have to make the most of it. Have fun and don't focus on how awkward it is.

    Idk if this was any help but I hope I was.

    Good luck(:
    dont think about how bad you are. just dance :)
    Thats not the right attitude to have my friend, whatever you do dont be one of the guys that stands on the wall the whole night with your arms folded and a grumpy look on your face, just go and have a fun time forget about other ppl and wat they think(which is i assume why you find it oquired) and just be in the moment, if you can just have a laugh crack a few jokes or whateverthen do it, but if your there to meet girls just, dont make it so obvious that thats the only reason why your there, bassically dont be all over them unless well your dancing and more then likly if your enjoying yourself( not nessecarily being a clown, but still not trying not to hold in a smile) then girls well be over you like magnets.... as for the grinding part i gotta ask you are you gay, you must be if you dont enjoy that :P.... again tho if you wanna meet new people you gotta leeve your comfort zone which might be up against the wall chillen and go bust a move
    everyone will be worrying about how they are dancing

    by the way ITS A DANCE! its for FUN! stop worrying too much noone will care

    best of luck

    sami
    I was the same as you. I'm a senior in high school this year, and what I've found out is that even though you feel uncomfortable, just go for it and you'll be a lot happier than just standing there like an idiot.
    drink a little before you go
    Everyone's awkward at dances; the only way to avoid it is to not go. But if that's not an option, just relax and don't think about it too much and just let it come to you. You'll get the hang of it.
    The main thing is to just let go of your insecurities and just have fun with your friends. People are gonna notice you bunched up in the corner and that is not what you want. With friends, it'll be fun.
    just keep on dancing. dont worry what others think, the more you dance, the less you will make mistakes. Everyone starts out with two left feet. go 4 it!
    I have always felt a alittle weird at dances too, I have no rhythm, I am out of school now and kind of regret, not letting go and just dancing though, maybe you should try to dance, just a simple move, u might have fun. Try practicing at home in front of a mirror, or have a friend help you learn a move or too. But I totally get you.
    Grow some balls.
    LOL i used to have the same problem, now people compliment me on how im so confident and ive ';come out of my shell'; when i dance :P.. Literally just copy what everyone else is doing, being a guy theres not much u can do when dancing UNLESS u wanna breakdance or something :P otherwise, just like do a ';hitch'; (if u know what that means) just move from side to side but be relaxed! if u get desperate get like lessons from friends or something! make sure there good friends, and not ***** who'll hold u up for it. Good Luck. Peace.

    Sooo theres this guy..?

    ok theres a guy on campus. hes hot, totally fun, cracks me up..my type.ok so hes a senior and im a sophmore (we're in college btw) and hes graduating this year. make a long story short, sometimes it seems like hes checking me out but other times it doesnt. for example, one day he was going around putting his cheek in girls faces to see if they would kiss him, and he came up to me and you better believe i kissed him! LOL. but when we were at a party he was going around dancing and grinding with girls..every girl BUT me...he would look right at me then dance with the girl next to me. but i felt like he was watching me dance at the same time..not to brag but im a very sexy dancer. its confusing. now i have him on facebook...but we dont talk. the thing is i dont wanna seem overly flirtacious or stalker-ish and scare him away..so wat exactly should i do to let him know im intersted??? and if hes not into me...how can i get over it and start to meet more guys?? (i dont have many guy friends)Sooo theres this guy..?
    DUDE! This makes me so sad to read stories like this. Listen, life isn't 16 candles, or any other teenebopper movie that you've seen. He doesn't secretly want you, but it too afraid to ask. That guy gets what he wants. If he wants you, he'll do it. The guy knows you want him. THAT is why he's checking you out. Because you're probably staring at him and you don't even know it. I know it sucks to hear this, but it's the truth. He doesn't want to lead you on, but he wants your attention because you're feeding he ego. MOVE ON, and if he's a true player, he'll want what he can't have. So the minute you're with another guy, he'll notice.Sooo theres this guy..?
    Sounds Playerish If he wants you he'll come after you if not its his loss....
    that guy is a perv. if he wants every gurl to kiss him, hes always gunna want that. and he probabli didnt wanna dance with u. give up and get a guy who isnt such a player.



    and if ur sucha sexy dancer, why wasnt he with you?
    Okay hun just talk to him. Look for eye contact the way he looks at your lips to kiss you, the way he smiles when ever you smile its easy just go for it hun.
    that was making a long story short? ok then. just tell him, girls always wait for the guy but you can end all this wondering and frustration and just ask him out.
    I say go for it go up to him flirt with him and you'll no it his into you or not then if he's not just start going out more have fun somebody will come to trust me when i tell you don't go out and make it seem like your looking for somebody though
    not to sound offensive but for a soph in college you sound really immature. i mean your in college, you should put yourself out there and tell him your interested...if he denies you, oh well his loss. theres plenty of guys in college willing to meet new people.
    First of all, don't be too quick and keep your hopes on fair levels because you never know how a guy really might be. So I mean, unless you're not for serious, you shouldn't mess around too much.

    I think you should say hi. From what you said, it seems like he is kind of trying to get your attention or maybe make you jealous, to see your reaction. Maybe he's waiting for YOU to say something, just like YOU are waiting for him to say something, hahaaa. But umm, I think if he was interested he would have made a move already, for real. So yee, since you have him on facebook you should definitely say hi. If you don't wanna say hi but do wanna start a conversation, try to find a reason to start a conversation. Like ask him a question about campus or something, as if you need information. He's probably gonna answer .. . Thank him and then boom, I'm pretty sure if he's interested he will start talking. Keep it real though, I think saying hi would be just fine. If he's not into you, so what? Just move on and don't make him feel as if it's such a huge deal. (Well, it depends how far you guys get). Meeting new guys shouldn't be so hard, usually I just let THEM come to ME, I don't go to THEM. Hahaaa. Just go to places or go around a group of guys in college, regularly if one of them notices you, he might talk. You know? Just keep things real and natural. Peace girl. :)
    well he if hes your type then do things the way u wud with guys that u usually go 4.

    Flirt but not overly u seem him say hi or maybe blow a jokingly kiss.

    Try laffing @ al his jokes and figure out if hes the one 4 u

    try talking 2 him over the computer soo regular things like hey wats up or just starting a convo.



    Hope it helps.

    Answer mine.

    I am stuck, what can I do?

    I have been dating a guy for a year and a half and he recently broke up with me 2 weeks ago through text. We are both 18. It killed me...but I saw it coming. We were going through hard times in our relationship. At first, we were the couple you would find never arguing..always happy but then the last couple months things went downhill. He goes to a different school than I do and my best friend also happens to be friends with him and go to the same school. Well I started to have trust issues with him as soon as I saw friends around me cheating on their boyfriends/girlfriends and people getting hurt so in my mind I figured he was doing the same. Everything he did seemed more personal. He always hangs out with other girls (alone sometimes) and then since i started realizing everyone else treating their lovers wrong...i thought he was doing the same so i asked him and pressed it upon him and he got upset because i was';letting others get in my head';. then months later...he went to one of his school dances and i had my friend spy on him just to make sure he was behaving. Well it turns out he was grinding with girls. I asked him about it later and he got mad cause i had people spying on him like he was a little kid. he kept denying it and denying it and saying i wasnt there so i dont know. he lied at first and said he bumped into her and then he was ';closely dancing'; without touching. i messaged the girl who he grinded with and she immediately apologized. i knew he lied. then i confronted him about it and told him she apologized...he broke up with me and said we can try it again later. he said we just needed time to figure things out. 2 weeks have passed and were still arguing even though were not together. he still goes out and hangs with girls he claims are just friends and he said he just doesnt want me tying him down from his friends. he said it has nothing to do with moving on because he doesnt want anyone else but me. hes getting yelled at by his family and his coaches at track and i want to be there for him so badly but he wont let me in. he said he will come around to me when hes ready. i dont know what to do. its so hard to give him space like i know i should. we still love each other, i just want to make this work. oh and by the way it makes it real hard cause we work together..so we have to see eachother. help! what should i do? how should i act around him?I am stuck, what can I do?
    It seems like at first you gave him room but then you started to invade his privacy. That is not normally ok depending on the person. However, he was hanging out with other women alone. There is nothing wrong with this unless he didn't tell you first. A simple ';hey I'm going to hang out with _ _ _ _ _ today'; would suffice to let you know about it. If he did do that then the only thing you can do is trust him.



    Making him jealous could work. Hang around your guy friends more, maybe talk to new guys. I wouldn't go so far as to flirt a lot with them, but just let him know that you are spending more time around OTHER guys and he may see them as a threat. If he doesn't then you may either have to wait it out and see, or leave him for good.



    This dancing and grinding issue could be over exaggerated but I sure as hell wouldn't do any close dancing that would come off like that with any other girl. Last I checked you don't have to be 1 inch apart to dance together. Unless it was for a dance class or a competition.



    These things can take time and i understand your cause for alarm. Hope he comes around... BOTH of you apologize (not one of you...) and that you both get together again if thats what you truely want.I am stuck, what can I do?
    make him jealous...act like u dont care...us guys dont like girls begging for attention...if you act like u dont care he will be like wtf cuz right now you are wrapped around his finger and he knows it...
    Make him feel bad. guilt always wins in these suitations and teaches him a lesson too
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  • How can i prove to my ex girlfriend?

    (back ground)

    This girl and I met a year ago at school. And last school year we dated twice. but she broke up with me because she liked someone else. And sort of treated me as the ';rebound';, or ';second priority';. But for some reason i still liked her and we would always come back to each other. (girls name - Krystal)



    (Now, recent)

    A several months ago i gave her a love letter. It told her that how i loved her and stuff. But as months passed i seemed to had moved on. And dated this new girl. We broke up, but i still had feelings for the new girl. (New girls name - Emma)



    And at my commuinty highschool football game i hung out with Krystal my old ex, who i had big feelings for too. We flirted a lot and i started to like her alot. So i had to choose krystal or emma. But then a week later i went out with Emma again and broke up with her 6 days later. ( i know, a waste of time)



    And now Krystal is mad at me cuz i didnt choose her and i told her that i liked her a lot and now i want to go out with her. But we both know that i can;t just fall back on her right after i broke up with Emma. And now im in a stressful position. And Emma is not too fond of me and Krystal is having second thoughts. But i want to prove to her that i like her alot and made a mistake and want to be with her.How can i prove to my ex girlfriend?
    I think you should do them both a favour and keep away from them until you've grown up a bit- well -alot.You sound like your 12 or 13.How can i prove to my ex girlfriend?
    Trust me, if there are two things girls love, it's feeling loved and drama (though they'll never admit that second one). Give some big heart-filled speech about how you were wrong you made a mistake and you still love her and she'll swoon. I've done this twice... with the same girl. It's easy as hell
    get the hell away from the girl. dangerous and a waste of your time. the Emma chick got screwed. Tell her that and maybe you have a chance with her, but run far away from the original chick. And stop writing love letters.
    Your a dude and making us look bad, quit playing the fence and just choose one. Be a man and tell the other you made your choice. If it doesn't work then at least you did the responsible thing.
    She just a h*e
    Sounds to me like you're treating Emma the same way that Krystal treated you. I think that you need to grow up a little bit and stick up for yourself. If you like Emma and she's gracious enought to take you back again, then you should get with her and make it stick. Girls like Krystal are sleezy b!tche$ and you will eventually learn that they aren't worth the time or the energy that it takes to make a relationship work.
    yea, you messed up. though the best way to fix it is to claim the ';i was lost at the time'; You can throw the '; i like you alot, like alot and well, i was so destroyed when we broke up, the idea of dating you and breaking up scared me.'; tell her that you realized it was just your guard you put up after her. Your best option is to claim you were stupid, and you realized that She was your best choice and you were a fool for picking the wrong one. your gonna have to open up to her, Girl hate it when you dont ';pick them'; your gonna have to really work on her. Your going to have to open up and let her know whats really going on.

    Dancing in the club with strangers? Yes or no?

    is it o.k. to dance/grind with strangers? Do you do this? How far do you go?



    I went to the club yesterday with my sisters for the second time in my life and I danced reggaeton and hip-hop. Guys grind on girls and girls do crazy stuff with guys. I know this type of dancing is normal at clubs but when a guy tries to do it with me I kind of feel uncomfortable and dirty. Is this feeling normal? Do you girls feel the same way?



    The guys I danced with were not rude or nasty. They did not try to touch me or anything. This one guy's hand went a little too down my back but I made sure to pull it back up on time. I noticed that guys just dance and do their thing. I feel I'm the one with the issue here. But why?Dancing in the club with strangers? Yes or no?
    you think thats crazy. I own a cottage in jamaica that me and people in my family visit a couple times a year. Its been in our family for 40 years. (was my dad/mom vacation house. His business distributed products there).

    Jamaicans actually simulate sex itself in dance.

    What you saw was G rated by comparison.

    Jamaicans get so dirty with their dancing that males have actually broken their penises. I kid you not. I've never seen a broken penis but I have seen the dancing. I was afraid to participate because I'm white and wasnt sure how the jamaican males would take a white guy ';daggering'; with a jamaican girl but I stood on the beach watching and drinking a beer with my friends who were vacationing with me. I WANTED to do it though! The only dance I am interested in doing.





    Face it. Its not 1930 anymore. We dont tango anymore.

    Society grinds. Enjoy.



    of course you feel dirty doing it. You've been brainwashed by the elite christian abortion clinic bombers to believe sex is filthy.

    Christians will stop at nothing to turn our society into a saudi arabia for christianity.

    If you dont feel dirty... its no fun and neither are you.Dancing in the club with strangers? Yes or no?
    I feel the same way too sometimes when im at the club dancing, but after awhile it gets to be fun, and no it is not sluttish unless you end up at their place after the clubs.
    Im 16 i never went to a club :(



    But grinding strangers is a little .... SIuttish ? ...

    What do you think of my style of writing?

    this is part of the first chapter to a story i'm writing

    some background info: a girl wakes up in a remote wilderness, with amnesia (she's been out of it, so she doesn't realize it for a few minutes)



    if something is in * *, then its a thought



    She awoke to a blanket of darkness and the chirping of crickets. Blinking her eyes to clear away the last vestiges of slumber, and thankful that she was no longer seeing double, the girl realized that she was, in fact, lying on a patch of grass. The tranquil evening sky above her was speckled here and there with countless points of light. *Stars*, she thought numbly. *But no moon.*



    “Stars,” she whispered. Or tried to, at least. It came out rather cracked and rough, barely escaping past her gummed-together lips. The girl grimaced. Her mouth was bone dry and felt like cotton. A swollen tongue flicked out to lick the chapped lips. *How long have I been here?* she wondered. From the ferocious growling of her stomach to the arid desert that was her mouth, the girl deduced that she must have been unconscious for days. *You’d think someone would notice.*



    As she tried to rise from the ground, the girl gave a grunt of annoyance. Everything was utterly unrecognizable. *I might as well be on a different planet.* She was surrounded by a clump of trees, their outlines unnaturally long and menacing in the starlight. In the distance she could see a range of mountains, the girl judging them to be quite far away. The landmarks were definitely not familiar, and there was no sign of civilization in sight. No houselights, streetlights, or any kind of lights, save for the unusual abundance of stars above her head. *Now that I think about it, the reason there are so many stars here is because there are no artificial human lights to block them out. I really must be far away from people, then.*



    *A really good question to be asking right now,* she thought with a frown, *would be where the hell am I?*



    --end



    what do you think? is my style of writing too descriptive/formal?What do you think of my style of writing?
    I like it. It seems sort of suspenseful, but curious.What do you think of my style of writing?
    very good!
    umm i really dont know..
    Your style is not too descriptive or formal. I like it. Kudos!
    It's fairly good. But the sentence toward the end, where she says ';now that I think about it'; the whole sentence sounds weird. It doesn't sound like someone who justbecame conscious would say..too much like she was reading it. Perhaps she could comment on the fact that she doesn't see any human type lights...no houses..no car lights. To me, the most important thing for her to ask herself right then was not where she was..but who she was.
    creative, but not stupid!

    answer my question?

    go to my page, look under questions asked.

    blahblahblahl.

    thanks!(:
    It's nicely written. The one thing I would say is that it's odd to be this deep inside someone's head and not use their name. She doesn't think of herself as ';the girl';, surely? If you don't want to use it yet for some reason, I recommend you stick with ';she';. Only one character, so nobody's going to get confused.



    Nitpick: if she's surrounded by trees, how can she see anything at all in the distance, and how can she tell there aren't a dozen houses hidden?



    She also wouldn't be able to see that much in starlight. No moon and no artificial light and you can't see a darn thing - the most would be that she might be able to identify the skyline as mountainous because of where there were no stars.



    And why isn't she wondering what happened and how she got here? I'd have thought that would be way higher up her list of concerns than figuring out that artificial light would have masked the stars.
    It is a little purple, to be honest. And the last thought doesn't really sound like something that would come into somebody's head. Thoughts aren't usually orderly like that; typically, they're more reactions than elaborate sentences.



    Still, you have good grammar and spelling. A little polishing and you should be fine.



    Just be careful about what your character is thinking, and make sure it sounds like something an actual person would think. (Also, I'm assuming the asterisks are because Y!A doesn't let you italicize.) For example, the sentence ';*Now that I think about it, the reason there are so many stars here is because there are no artificial human lights to block them out. I really must be far away from people, then.*';



    It doesn't sound like something someone would think. Not elaborate sentences. It's probably better to summarize her thought process.



    Other than that, though, you're good. :)
    I sympathize with your concerns! When I write, I ask myself the same question. It's only lately that I've realized that the situation is more complex than you would think, because you can't determine if a writing style is ';too formal'; or descriptive until you identify what audience you are targeting. If your story is meant to be enjoyed by middle schoolers, you've probably got a problem--your vocabulary is too advanced for the majority of 12-14 year olds. However, if you're writing for an older young adult audience, this is probably a fine level of vocabulary.



    I personally like your writing style, but the text seems a little passive. Even in introductory scenes or in scenes where nothing is happening (maybe even especially in scenes where all the action is introspective) you need to have a bit more of a bang to your words, a little more stylistic flair, to keep the reader's attention on what you're trying to convey. So keep in mind that a more formal writing style often makes it more difficult to convey emotion.



    Also, a character that has just woken up and has amnesia might be a little more groggy and her thoughts might be more muddled than the clarity your main character posseses, at least for a little bit. To make the situation more real, I suggest you maybe try to make her out to be a little less analytic and more confused in the beginning.



    Other than that, good job :) This sounds like it could become an interesting story!

    Dancing in the club with strangers? Yes or no?

    is it o.k. to dance/grind with strangers? Do you do this? How far do you go?



    I went to the club yesterday with my sisters for the second time in my life and I danced reggaeton and hip-hop. Guys grind on girls and girls do crazy stuff with guys. I know this type of dancing is normal at clubs but when a guy tries to do it with me I kind of feel uncomfortable and dirty. Is this feeling normal? Do you girls feel the same way?



    The guys I danced with were not rude or nasty. They did not try to touch me or anything. This one guy's hand went a little too down my back but I made sure to pull it back up on time. I noticed that guys just dance and do their thing. I feel I'm the one with the issue here. But why?Dancing in the club with strangers? Yes or no?
    Idk why but it's not bad at all...That's mainly the reason you go to a club:



    Go with friends

    Find guys/girls

    Meet new people

    Dance with new people

    Have a good time



    That's what it is however you can achieve those is the right way to go clubbing. Lol if you don't like that description then clubbing isn't for you sorry.Dancing in the club with strangers? Yes or no?
    yeah i would go if i new some people! if you feel uncomfortable just don't go to the clubs!! lol

    you don't have a issue you just have to get used to it!!

    How should I handle this situation with my daughter?

    As a man, I just don't know what to do. She has always been a super girly girl since the time she was born. She always wanted to play barbie and dress up and not any sports. It is actually her hope to be the most feminine girl ever. She has always had no interest in any activity that is not girly. I have always found it cute since my boys are very athletic and tough. However last year when I went in for parent teacher conferences, her PE teacher couldn't believe how bad she was at every activity. She told me that my daughter is the weakest girl that has ever been in her class. When I talked to my daughter about it, she was happy. Her view is that muscles are masculine and she is happy to be so weak. Then just about a week ago, a bully girl who hates girly girls decided to mess with her. She was just going to the ladies room and the mean girl was there. She immediately started making fun of my daughter beacuse she always wears dresses and skirts. My girl tried to walk away but the girl got in her way and pushed her to the ground. My girl had never been in a fight but tried unsuccessfully to defend herself. When she finished beating the **** out of her, she decided to tie her up with the sash on her dress and then stuff her in the trash can. I was hoping my daughter would now want to learn some self-defense and try to lift weights to get a little stronger. She still doesn't want to because it is still not feminine. I do believe in allowing your kids to be themselves, but here I am afraid being herself can get her hurt in the wrong situation.How should I handle this situation with my daughter?
    You should be so proud of your little girl. Not only are feminine girls/woman rare these days (because we are all so keen on becoming men why I don't know why) but she also has a strong sense of person and wont give into peer pressure regardless of the physical outcomes...wow what character - who does she get that from?



    I would treat her like the lady she is and allow her to experience life. I would also send my boys to repay the bully but I'm just an evil feminine woman.



    Why do we women to become men. Our instincts and nature are nuturing and kind. Why do we need to become hunters? The feminists movement did little for me...it only added an extra 12 hour task for me (work) but I still have my household duties aswell. I think we had it right in the 60's...life for mums was much easier with other mums at home and we raised children as a community.How should I handle this situation with my daughter?
    Good for her for being so self confident! Keep allowing her to be herself. She shouldn't have to change just because some bully tries to make her. She's her own person and should never have to conform to someone else's ideals.
    I hope you and your daughter talked to the school and got that girl suspended. If not, do so right away! That is the most urgent thing here.



    There is nothing wrong with being girlie, of course, but it is important for everyone to exercise and stay strong. Maybe your daughter needs a role model? If you have any young female family members or friends who are athletes but also like to dress up and do their hair and makeup, that girl could show her that being girlie doesn't mean you can't do any sports and take care of your body. Or you could suggest she try a traditionally ';girlie'; sport like ballet, gymnastics, ice skating, cheerleading, or swing dance lessons. Even though they are feminine, these sports require you to be strong. I think all girls benefit from sports. I don't think it is necessary for your daughter to learn how to punch someone, or anything that extreme.



    Let your daughter know you are proud of you know the situation she is in is tough, but you will do whatever you can to keep her safe at school because being beaten in the bathroom is completely unacceptable behavior in any school. If the school doesn't recognize this, yank her out of there and get her into another school as fast as possible.
    She wants to be girly girl and defend herself or you wnat her to be abelt o at least right? She may hate this but it will be good for her and you can get privavte lessons. Put her in kenpo katate class. As a kid i wasn't a girly girl but i got picked on a lot so I know how if feels to be picked on although I never got tied up. Now as an adult i want tobe ale to protect myself. She can get private lesson where she isn't going to have to hit any one excpet maybe her teacher like when showing techiqes and it can be very graceful. Explain that it can be femine taichi looks very graceful and femine and it is fun too. Then if any other girk tris to beat her up or the same girl she will at leats be able to do something. the white belt is all about getting away form the attacker nto hurting some one. She'll go to one class and want to go back/. My sis who hate smartail arts trie done c;*** and she is a girly gir she went backtillshe had soem issues and plans on going back once sh eworks though teh issues and she can make lots of friend there Just a suggestion forgive teh poor spelling tried
    Allow her to be who she is. She can get bullied because she's a girly girl, or because she's short/tall or maybe she has short/long hair. A bully will find any reason they want to to pick on someone.
    WOW. I think its gotten worse with teen violence than when I was in school! This girl totally needs to be reported to someone or she is just going to keep doing it. Your daughter has a right to feel safe and secure while at school. She shouldnt have to worry every second she is at school because of some snot nosed bully who is insecure and hateful.
    You should try to enroll her in a ';girl'; sport...ballet, jazz, tap, hip hop, cheerleading, poms, etc.



    These are all very girl-ish sports that will get her in shape and build muscle tone