How do you get a guy to grind with you at a dance?

hiii(: ok so heres the deal. my schools gonna have a school party pretty soon and theres a specific guy that i like and i was really hoping that i would dance with him at it. im not all into the grinding thing but my friends kind of convinced to me to try it out. soo i was wondering if any 1 could tell me what i should do to want him to dance with me w.o me having to ask him.((or do guys ask)) and i was also wondering how i should exaclty grind on him i no how it its just that i wanna no the ways they like it. soo here are the questions:



1)) how to make a guy come and grind with me w.o asking him

2)) how do they ask girls to grind or do they ask at all

3)) a specific way that guys like girls grind on them.How do you get a guy to grind with you at a dance?
Spike his drink



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Dont ask, just do it, but really, if you dont want to then why do it just cus ur friends think you should? Thats lame.How do you get a guy to grind with you at a dance?
Grinding is just dancing. Ask the guy to dance with you and just do what feels natural. Don't let your friends talk you into doing something you're not comfortable with.
1.Grind girls as jokes and guys will join in.

2. They dont ask

3. REAALLL close
i don't believe you ask or anything. Just do it.

My friend grinded with like five guys she just walked up like ';hey let's dance'; and started partying.



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HA! I wish I had this problem. Whenever I go to dances, guys always grind on me whether I want them to or not. I'm kinda thin, so I can't stop them. Ugh.



Trust me, if your school's anything like mine, you won't have to worry about that. Just stand near him.



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1) you should get one of ur friends to go up to him and tell him that he should dance with you. make sure to be dancing and having a good time, cuz guys just surprise you from behind and usually dont even ask you to dance half of the time lol!

2) they dont ask sometimes, maybe if theyre a gentleman aha, and it has to be during a good fun song too or like hip hop

3) move those hips to the beat girl, thats all there is to it
Go up and dance with him pull him up close

they dont really

no as long as your hot



good luck

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If you're both on the dance floor, no, 99% of the time they won't ask (that's awkward with loud music). Either talk to him before going on the dance floor (and then enter the dance floor together to be near him) or find him on the dance floor already and dance near him. If you show any sort of interest in him while dancing, chances are it will just end up happening.
well, u may just wanna ask him

sometimes we ask, sometimes not

well, we like it to be smooth, not too fast, a bit sensual, go with the beat of w/e song is on, and sometimes two girls at once

depends on how dirty u wanna gett
If your dancing on everybody else they will come up
1) First if you can get the attention of the other boys wanting to dance with you then they will all want a turn. It is like follow the leader, the first boy that gets it starts showing off then boys will come and ask you



2)They ask you if you want to dance and that basically means turn around and grind for me(don't take it the wrong way that is how boys are) so you turn around and do it.



3)The best way to do it is to grind like the girls in Plies's Hypnotized video(maybe you should watch it to see more) so do it like that. The boys like to watch it turn in circles and that gets them excited.



*BONUS- If all of that doesn't get his attention then you ask him or lose your chance which could be your last so don't let it pass you by go for it!!! Make sure you watch this video below!!!
1.) just look cute standing there, smile at him a bit, look hot.

you could also grind with a group of girls and guys kinda just join in.

2.) some guys will come up to you and ask to dance, most will just come up to you and start dancing with ya tho. school dances are really crowded(at least mine are) so you'll be reall close to him.

3) just push your body up against his, not too much pressure, see how much he puts on you first. you just kinda dance with your back against him, some girls go way out it really just depends on how slutty you are. being your first time tho, just relax and dance nothing exotic. pretty much just move up and down and wiggle a bit while you dance.