How do you grind with a girl? 10 points best answer?

I have seen grinding at dances before but i never have really danced before and i also don't consider myself the dancing type. Anyways if i ever try to dance its like my feet are stuck in cement, and I don't really want to dance but my schools kick off dance was the other day and it is a total grind fest, anyways i didn't go because i wouldn't be dancing, but this girl who i just met that i like said she didn't see me there and seemed sad. So i just wanted to know how to get a girl to grind with you and basically what to do because i don't want this to happen again.

Thanks for any help 10 points to the best answerHow do you grind with a girl? 10 points best answer?
in grinding, the girls are the attention, the leader. you are the follower. the better you can follow, the better you are, and following isnt cake, but its veeeeery easy to learn.



two important things:



1) your arms/hands should hold her VERY LIGHTLY. the lighter the better. make sure she can feel you holding her, but do it very lightly because that allows her to move freely. ive heard many girls complain that a guy was holding her too tightly and she couldnt move/dance.



2) your movements mostly follow her movements, and your hips either follow or COUNTER her movements. wtf does that mean? it means that your hips can either do the same thing hers does, or the opposite. as in, you can either your hips left when she does, and right when she does. or the opposite. right when she goes left, and left when she goes right. see what i mean? and you can alternate between doing the same and doing the opposite.





your feet should mostly stay where they are, and if you feel like she's enjoying it, do sexy things like placing your face on her shoulder and your nose on her hair or her neck



this is a sexual dance without any sex, think of it sexually. occasionally slide your hands up and down her thighs (NOT up her dress though) and up and down her sides or her arms. make it so that you are getting to know her body with your hands, but do it all very lightly and respectfully.





dont EVER touch her a$$. that's a no no. and dont ever touch her chest. stomach, you can, you can move your hands across her stomach or her collar even. but restricted areas are the chest, a$$, and up the dress. (you would think its obvious but many guys do this and regret it!!!)



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fall3ncity@yahoo.comHow do you grind with a girl? 10 points best answer?
Ooh, I answered a question like this a while ago. One second, lemme go find my answer, and I'll come back and edit, and paste it here.



EDIT: (Oh, and just so you're not confused, the person who asked the question said ';dubs'; instead of ';grinds'; So, yeah...







My answer to that person's question:



Dubs?

Explain what that is, and I'll come back and edit and give an answer.



Edit: OOOOOOH! *slaps forehead* So you meant grinding? Okey, now I understand, lol. I know what grinding is...I just had no idea what you meant by ';dubs';.



Ok, well when a girl starts..umm...';dubbing'; you, you don't really have to do much. She won't expect you to do some fancy hip rolling movement at first. Just move your hips side to side, or if you can, follow her lead. By that, I mean, like if she moves her butt to the right, then you do the same. Like a shadow. Then if she slowly moves it to the left or something, then you shadow her movements and move to the left to.



Then, once you get comfortable, you can lightly place your hands either on her waist, or her hips. Then, just go with the flow, and let her lead.



Don't be too nervous; like I said, she won't expect you to do too much. As long as you're not standing there like a statue, you'll be fine. (Member not to do stuff like fondle her breasts or anything okay? That'll earn you a ';What the f*ck!!?'; and a slap to the face)



Good luck, and happy ';dubbing';!



-Crystal
Walk behind her a get really really close and rub your D*** on her butt in a circle motion...have fun!!
slap that a**... lol jk dont do that TRUST ME... just go w) the flow of the music
http://www.wikihow.com/Grind



there you go! that page is really informative, and good luck with the crush!!! : )
just let it flow. girls like it when the guy is not tense, or freaked out. if you dont want to dance with her, just go somewhere else with her, ask her if she wants to go to a resteraunt or something. if lots of people are freaked out about that stuff, its ok.
You know what. I wasn't much of a dancer either. and one of the girls saw me standing there not dancing and she just came over and ask me if I wanted to dance. I told her I didn't know much about it and she said ';oh come I'll show you'; before the night was over I danced a half dozen times but only with her. Why don't you ask this girl to show you some grind moves. theres no harm in asking
what you have to do is like get a feel for the music, if you don't like the music just quickly go to the bathroom with your mp3 player and listen to that. also when everyone else grinds try it with the girl they know to grind when you do, but grind with 1 girl that you like every other dance that ppl are grinding to....so you don't look like a creep.
as to how to get her to grind with you, all you have to do is ask, just be like do you want to dance?



as to how....

when im grinding with a guy i like it when he puts one arm like all the way across my stomach and holds me like really close to his body and then puts his other hand on my hip or upper thigh. then basically just let your hips sway to the music. depending on the music sometimes if its a heavier hotter beat its nice when a guy kinda like gets lower and then you have to like lean into him, i dunno its hard to explain. but anyways yeah, its not hard itll come pretty naturally when you do it.
ok doood.

i am the grinding master.

dont be shy you gotta be confident and not all awkward cause that jsut makes them feel awkward ya know?

ok well when she is on the dance floor you go like behind her and start like rubbing against her with ur back and she will get the signal and gt into it then jsut turn around andd do circular motions.
Wrestler,



A little practice and you麓ll be great!



This page has all the great (and free) videos and articles that you can find on how to grind dance and songs to grind to.



http://www.thisishowyoudoit.com/how-to-g鈥?/a>



After watching these, you'll be able to master how to grind and find great grinding music. Hope this helps.



Good Luck,

Richard