but im a freshman and i ditched my homecoming
the thing is i did get asked, 3 times, but not by anyone id actually go with you know? and id only want to go with someone i genuinely like, but thats just me.
anyways my friend told me that everyone was grinding eachother. but umm i dont even know how to grind properly haha, so could someone give me some pointers so i dont look like an idiot at my next school dance?
also when you grind, do you jump up and down? cause at our schools back to school dance i saw this girl grinding with her boyfriend except the girl was like jumping...? but then some people say you just move your hips or whatver...
help? haha thanksHow do you grind/freakdance?
okay so i would strongly segest you dont jump up and down, it will just make it alot harder to dance.
so pretty much all you do is roll your body, and swing your hips. exsagerate your movements. you will almost never look awkward danceing becouse if somehow the danceing does look or feel awkward just asume its the guys fault b/c it usulaly is, haha.
help full hints...
Get out there and have some fun. You can't grind if you're not even on the dance floor or standing watching other people grind.
Guys LOVE it when a girl grinds with a boy.
Move towards the middle of a big group of people. Usually that's where a lot of the grinding is.
Find one of your good friends that you feel comfortable with and begin to dance with her. Dance with her normally as if no one was watching. This doesn't have to be sexually. A guy will soon notice you, mainly because you're dancing and having fun with your best friend. Most likely a guy won't say anything when he wants to grind, but instead will give you subtle signals.
Act normally, as if you don't even realize that they're coming. Be sure to keep dancing
They would appreciate if you look at them and smile and signal them over. Don't Ignore them, acknowledge their prescence.
Know what kind of grinding you're doing. When you feel a guy grab you around the hips he can either be facing you or facing your back. If he's facing your back this is normal grinding and more popular. Front grinding is more risqu茅 and sexy! Most people don't do front grinding their first time.
Leave your arms by your side or maybe even grab his arms, you can also put them on your thighs as you dance for sapport if you get tiered. or you can wrap you arms arouind your neck, even when your back is to them
If the guy you're trying to dance with isn't the best at grinding, put your hands into his pockets and have your hands follow the motion of your hips. This usually works best when you're hips are moving in circles or sideways figure-eights.
Be ready for the song to end. Usually, the guy will walk away. Sometimes he'll say something and sometimes not. Don't be offended if he just walks away in the middle of the song. Don't let that get to you because the chances are that the guy has gotten 'happy' and doesn't want to make things uncomfortable. Just quickly find that friend you were dancing with before. Make it look like nothing is wrong and you're glad that he's gone. but if you want to keep danceing with him for the next song too dance in the break like music is still playing, dont stop!
When you move your hips, move in the shape of a sideways figure-eight.
Don't move with your shoulders, grinding is done with your hips.
Stay on rhythm. Practice at home where no one is watching. DO THIS!!
Try not to step on the guy's feet. Ouch!
Don't touch yourself and try to act all sexy. It'll probably seem forced.
If a guy touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, leave or move his hand. Just because you're grinding it doesn't give him the right to grope you. but try not to get affened by it, just move his hands, hes just horny he cant help him self
If you want to pop lock and drop it then make sure he doesn't go down with you, just pop lock and drop it normally.
Better yet, let us not pop lock and drop it trust me if you can't do it, don't do it!
The best dancers glow in confidence. If you are worried about how good of a dancer you are, when you grind with someone remember that you are already dancing, so he obviously doesn't have a problem.
If you are to join a train, make sure you are in between people you are comfortable grinding with!
Girls- you don't have to let just anyone grind you!
Any fast song like Rap, or Hip-Hop is best to grind to!
If a guy is behind you, and you're mostly sure he wants to grind with you, back into him a bit, so that he knows you are interested. He will most likely put his hands on your hips, and you will start to grind.
Don't get mad if you see a guy you grinded with, grinding with other girls. Grinding isn't serious. It's just for fun!
Move up and down and be sure to bend your knees and move your knees side to side.
If your boy partner is not knowing what to do, take his hands and place them on your waist/stomach/hips and move him in the way you want to move.
Don't dance too slow or the guy won't enjoy it and will leave.
To make things interesting, you can grind face to face.
The best songs to grind to are the faster beat ones. It gives you more of a chance to show your moves
If the guy gets an erection, either ignore it or walk away if it makes you uncomfortable. Even though it's completely natural, he's probably a lot more embarrassed about it than you. Don't try to touch him there if you aren't shooting for serious groping. and if he gets one, hey at least you know your doing well and they like what your doing;)
If the guy tries to make you do anything you don't want to, just politely tell him to takeHow do you grind/freakdance?
Don't grind and be like the other sluts. Try to have a little self esteem. You can dance sexy without annoying grinding. Seriously, think for yourself.
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