How do you grind with a girl at the club?

My friends want me to go with them to the Club on Monday since I'm not the most ';social'; person and I don't have a girlfriend. So they want me to go with them. Problem is I don't really know how to dance, let alone don't even know HOW to ask a girl at the club to dance with me. And I heard that most girls do that grinding dance at the club, so anyone know what a guy is suppose to do when grinding? And how can I ask a girl to dance with me?How do you grind with a girl at the club?
Look around and spot a girl you think is hot, a good dancer and is having a good time with her friends.

Walk towards her way.

Go up to the girl and ask her if she wants to dance. Note: You do not always have to ask. Sometimes, at bigger parties with more girls, they like it better when you don't talk at all. However, if you happen to know her, it would be better to ask.



If she says yes, calmly stand behind her and place your hands on her hips.

Start swaying side to side in a figure-eight shape with slightly bent knees. Again, it doesn't have to be a figure eight, but a lot of the time it's merely a side to side motion, but keep pressure constant, and add variety (girls like that).

Pay attention to her reactions.

If she says no, then just walk away and don't force her to or ask lots of questions.

If she doesn't like it, she might stop and stand there or she will slow down. If so, remove your hands and slowly walk away.

This is not always the case, and it is possible to help them regain their interest, just do a little more movement, add variety.

If she does like it, you can get more into it by pressing your body a little harder against her and overall getting closer to her. You can also place your hands somewhere else

If a song ends and you still would like to dance with her ask her if she would like to dance to another song.

Most guys would just keep dancing or follow her when she walks away, but then that would not give the girl a chance to say no.

Be polite and ask her if she would like to go for another song.



SIMPLE TIPS--

If she starts to smile, try leaning into her neck; girls like that.

Stay with the music and move to the beat of the song. If its a fast song, slow down a little so the grinding is more enjoyable.

Some girls will grab your hands or your neck. This is a good sign; just stay cool and go with it. Don't get nervous!

Look at your friends or other people if you're unsure of how fast to go.

Don't seem too desperate. If a girl just doesn't feel like it don't stalk her.

Play it cool. Let her be in control most of the time and if you feel like things are about to go stale take the lead and show her you got moves.How do you grind with a girl at the club?
relax, you'll learn it there. its the easiest dance to learn.



most important: enjoy the music and try to be as horny as possible.
google it :)