Grinding with a girl?

i grinded my first time last year at a dance and now im in high school and thats all people did at homecoming

my date danced really fast and i couldnt keep up so we just decieded to dance with other people

is it ok that i get hard when i do it

and how do you know if you are doing it right?Grinding with a girl?
yea ull get hard when u do it.girls get wet too .thats the point basicly, the more u do it the more comfortable ull become n you might not get as turned on as easialy,,,n ull noe basicly ur doin it right when it feels good and yall ';flow'; togeather..hope this helpedGrinding with a girl?
Practice makes perfect!
First of all, relax - don't think so much or you'll mess it up. Listen to the beat of the music and move with it. If you still don't feel right, watch the people on MTV and try and mimic them. Watch yourself in front of a mirror just to make sure you look alright. I was a terrible dancer until my friends helped me out and used many of the aforementioned tactics. As for the getting hard problem, I know girls who have made a big deal about this sort of thing. Even though it's a natural reaction that you can't do much about, sometimes the girl feels it. Lots of them are too young or too dumb to understand basic biological functions. So... be careful, I guess?
well i use to get hard but i dont any more because ive gone to enough dances. what i do is just dance. dont think about the chicks around u and grindin up on you(yes this is hard but just have fun) and then agian u can always wear like boxer breifs so it doesnt stick straight out. lol well how it helps ya.