Sunday, November 21, 2010

Sooo theres this guy..?

ok theres a guy on campus. hes hot, totally fun, cracks me up..my type.ok so hes a senior and im a sophmore (we're in college btw) and hes graduating this year. make a long story short, sometimes it seems like hes checking me out but other times it doesnt. for example, one day he was going around putting his cheek in girls faces to see if they would kiss him, and he came up to me and you better believe i kissed him! LOL. but when we were at a party he was going around dancing and grinding with girls..every girl BUT me...he would look right at me then dance with the girl next to me. but i felt like he was watching me dance at the same time..not to brag but im a very sexy dancer. its confusing. now i have him on facebook...but we dont talk. the thing is i dont wanna seem overly flirtacious or stalker-ish and scare him away..so wat exactly should i do to let him know im intersted??? and if hes not into me...how can i get over it and start to meet more guys?? (i dont have many guy friends)Sooo theres this guy..?
DUDE! This makes me so sad to read stories like this. Listen, life isn't 16 candles, or any other teenebopper movie that you've seen. He doesn't secretly want you, but it too afraid to ask. That guy gets what he wants. If he wants you, he'll do it. The guy knows you want him. THAT is why he's checking you out. Because you're probably staring at him and you don't even know it. I know it sucks to hear this, but it's the truth. He doesn't want to lead you on, but he wants your attention because you're feeding he ego. MOVE ON, and if he's a true player, he'll want what he can't have. So the minute you're with another guy, he'll notice.Sooo theres this guy..?
Sounds Playerish If he wants you he'll come after you if not its his loss....
that guy is a perv. if he wants every gurl to kiss him, hes always gunna want that. and he probabli didnt wanna dance with u. give up and get a guy who isnt such a player.



and if ur sucha sexy dancer, why wasnt he with you?
Okay hun just talk to him. Look for eye contact the way he looks at your lips to kiss you, the way he smiles when ever you smile its easy just go for it hun.
that was making a long story short? ok then. just tell him, girls always wait for the guy but you can end all this wondering and frustration and just ask him out.
I say go for it go up to him flirt with him and you'll no it his into you or not then if he's not just start going out more have fun somebody will come to trust me when i tell you don't go out and make it seem like your looking for somebody though
not to sound offensive but for a soph in college you sound really immature. i mean your in college, you should put yourself out there and tell him your interested...if he denies you, oh well his loss. theres plenty of guys in college willing to meet new people.
First of all, don't be too quick and keep your hopes on fair levels because you never know how a guy really might be. So I mean, unless you're not for serious, you shouldn't mess around too much.

I think you should say hi. From what you said, it seems like he is kind of trying to get your attention or maybe make you jealous, to see your reaction. Maybe he's waiting for YOU to say something, just like YOU are waiting for him to say something, hahaaa. But umm, I think if he was interested he would have made a move already, for real. So yee, since you have him on facebook you should definitely say hi. If you don't wanna say hi but do wanna start a conversation, try to find a reason to start a conversation. Like ask him a question about campus or something, as if you need information. He's probably gonna answer .. . Thank him and then boom, I'm pretty sure if he's interested he will start talking. Keep it real though, I think saying hi would be just fine. If he's not into you, so what? Just move on and don't make him feel as if it's such a huge deal. (Well, it depends how far you guys get). Meeting new guys shouldn't be so hard, usually I just let THEM come to ME, I don't go to THEM. Hahaaa. Just go to places or go around a group of guys in college, regularly if one of them notices you, he might talk. You know? Just keep things real and natural. Peace girl. :)
well he if hes your type then do things the way u wud with guys that u usually go 4.

Flirt but not overly u seem him say hi or maybe blow a jokingly kiss.

Try laffing @ al his jokes and figure out if hes the one 4 u

try talking 2 him over the computer soo regular things like hey wats up or just starting a convo.



Hope it helps.

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