when working out rolling on the ground with girls, are you guys ever self conscious? firstly girls tend to be physically weaker than guys, secondly there is a social concept grounded into us that men should be gentlemen, thirdly, a lot of places on a girls' body are out of bounds to us (by decorum) such as boobs, etc. anyone ever got into any embarrassing situation? e.g. accidental boob grab, how did you deal with it?
for the girls, how did you react in such a situation? do you ever feel uncomfortable rolling with the guys?Guys groundwork/rolling/newaza/wres鈥?with girls?
Yeah, once, it just turned into a suckfest.
Real talk.Guys groundwork/rolling/newaza/wres鈥?with girls?
i roll around with girl's vaginas
Just a quick answer from personal experience- it is all about the amount of experience each person has and the comfort level of everyone who is participating. If you are uncomfortable, watch how she handles grappling with guys. If you are still unsure, exclude yourself and wait until another day.
It really helps if the girl knows what she is doing and has experience. Those girls can handle themselves and it is a positive experience for them to roll with people below them to show that it is possible and for the lower level to learn respect. Trust me, in BJJ, experience is the key and you will get tapped by a girl many times over if she has been doing it longer. It isn't about out and out strength, it is about leverage, positioning and strategy. Smaller men or women routinely school bigger opponents, hence the beauty of martial arts.
Last thing, I think it is safe to say grabbing anyone's *** or crotch is generally not acceptable. Incidental/accidental stuff can happen and it is usually brushed off. If they think you have a perverted intent, guy or girl, it may get ugly and uncomfortable quickly. The best way to go is to get to know the person, maybe let them know if you are married/taken, not single them out as the only person you want to grapple with and keep comments to a minimum.
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