Friday, November 19, 2010

How to grind (freak dancing)?

So I understand grinding consists pretty much of the guy(me) moving in sync with the girl's hip movements.

My main question is- Assuming the girl is a complete stranger you just met on the dance floor, how long does one typically stay grinding with one particular girl? And after that period of time, how does one stop grinding with her(to go home, or to go grind with another girl, etc.)? I mean, do you just walk off without saying a word, as if nothing happened? And is it normal to talk to the girl afterwards, if she wants to exchange phone numbers, etc.?

I hope you can answer my questions accurately. If you don't want to generalize, please tell me what you would do in those situations! Please don't say, it's all up to you, etc. I'm on Yahoo Answers to get answers.. Thanks !!How to grind (freak dancing)?
This question is funny as u know what.



I love that you're honest about it instead of assuming you know what you're doing. Good for you.



Okay, so here we go (as a girl who clubbed and was ';holla'd at..etc)



Watch a couple of Sean Paul and other reggae Youtube videos to get an idea of how to grind the correct way. It is easy as long as you have rhythm and usually the girl will lead you anyway. You just get behind her, and kinda get your bop on and she gets in her rhythm.



Now, as for the convo after, just basically compliment her on her dancing in a non dorkified way (like, dang girl, you trying to hurt me...add some humor in other words). Girls love compliments...her smell, what she looks like....since you just finished dancing (which by the way, if you don't want to dance with her anymore, just let her know how she tired you out). See the whole, girl you're trying to break me thing can work to end the dance or start a convo.



Then kind of take her aside, not forcefully and just kinda make small talk like where are you from, and let her know about you, and if you want to dance with her some more and before the night is over just let her know that you want to see her again and get her number. Basically the dancing is your way in and the convo is the way to stay in.



EDIT:

And one more thing, hit up some parties with friends and don't necessarily dance...just watch what happens. Go to a club and chill at the bar or just kinda chill wit ur boys and act like ur scoping the scene. Hope this helps.How to grind (freak dancing)?
Depends usually for me a 3 song limit if its sum random chick. When the song is over she will walk away or sumtin or u can just walk away. At the end of a mixer if uve been freakin with sum chick for awhile and shes hot u might want to get her number
You dont stay a specific time with the girl,if she begins to stop,or a new song begins,she might go somewhere else too.and you can just walk away,if she makes contact with you,talk with her.it is very nomal to talk afterwards

Just go with the floooow






Wow, here I was getting ready to help a brother out with an answer when I saw Skeptical777's....... All I can say is don't even bother reading the other answers... Select hers as the best answer, follow her advice and you're good.
Oh man, there's a science to this. I am not so clued in on the art of grinding, sorry and your questions about it are rather technical..
Don't grind, you look trashy (no offense at all).

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