I am 16 years old and a sophomore in high school. Im starting to become more confident with talking to girls. In the last month ive been on 2 party buses for birthdays. The first one was fun, it was my first time ever grinding with a girl. I think i did good for my first time. On the second bus i was a lot more confident. I hooked up with this girl but it was too easy. Like she just sat me down and she was giving me a lap dance/making out with me.
That was good but it wasn't really what i expected. Like thats not normally that easy.
So im going to have a party for my birthday very soon. It will either be on a party bus or in a hotel room. Im good with grinding with girls but i dont really know what to do after that.
So say im grinding with a girl but i want to do more what do i do? How do i know if she wants to do more? How do i bring her over to the side? When can i tell if she wants to go over to the side?
If you wish to answer please remember the background info i gave. Thanks for the help.
Additional Details
By hooking up i mean make out and if it gets more serious moving onto further things. Im not concerned about the further things. I mainly want to know how to hook up with her. What do i say or do? How do i know she wants to?
Well it depends whose there. Theres 1 girl i like, she knows i used to like her, but we are just friends now. She has always been kind of prude. But if its for her than idk. But if its a random chick its straight up hooking up.
Im going to invite people i see at school, and people from other schools that i know.
There is PROBLY NOT going to be alcohol kuzz of my dad but their MIGHT.Help with hooking up with a girl?
Haha, maybe your just REALLY good looking(: If you are, then its probably going to be that easy. Confidence is sexy. So is good grinding. You'll know if she wants to hook up. Wait, grinding, was she facing you? Because thats so much funner, and if she is, then it's pretty straightforward if you want to move on from there. Well, if your dancing, then start feeling around, and touching her and stuff like that. If shes into it, then you'll definitely know, and she will probably make the next move. If she doesn't just keep at it until either one of you decides to get down to business(:
You should get one of you party guests to sneak in alcohol and spike all the drinks(: Its so much more fun that way.Help with hooking up with a girl?
You have to have drinks to have a party. Or else no1 isgoing to show up!!!!! and you sound pretty confident with yourself. What do u mean gridding? dancing or the reall stuff?
umm homes girls ur age dont want a guy to be all over them u seem like a player oh and ';I mainly want to know how to hook up with her'; good luck with that **** jerk :D
Just slowly start testing your boundaries. Start feeling, and watch/feel her reactions to what you do. You'll know when you've gone too far if she tenses up (and seems to stop what shes doing), grabs your hand, or simply says no. After that just play it cool and keep doing what you were previously doing.
After grinding with a girl, hold your hand out (she should take it) and lead her to a couch to sit and talk, and then look her in the eyes, and kiss her!
ANSWER MINE: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Okay lil man. let me educate you. I have hooked up with many many guys before, some excellent, some horrible.
ways to tell if she is into hooking up: her body language is key. notice how she is acting around you, if she is sensual, distant, or does it seem like she is just there to grind, but not for you.
If you guys are grinding your chest to her back, turn her around so you both are chest to chest. Look at how she acts. does she stare into your eyes? lick her lips? bite her lips? look at your lips? those are all indicators that she wants to kiss you. next move is yours buddy. lean in, slowly so your noses are either very close to touching, or touching, and then kiss her. slow and short at first. if she is into it, she will kiss back, if she isnt, she probably will pull away.
NEVER START BY SAYING YOU ARE PRETTY LETS MAKE OUT. turnoff. when alot of guys think girls want to hear that, its true, but not right before we make out.
So lets say now you got her making out with you, you can either A) move to the side and continue, maybe go further. or B) pull away look into her eyes, and she what she does. if she does nothing, then you can lean in again.
dont pressure her. thats one of the things i cant stand. dont be all like lets go over there, your so amazing, oh my god, blah blah blah. those arent things you say when you are making out.
Lastly, be yourself and stay calm and chill. she can sense if you are nervous. and if you are, then she might back off because you might send her the vibes that you arent into this. if there is alcohol there, dont get so wasted where you wont remember the night, and dont try to ger her wasted so it will be easier to get in her pants...if thats what you are aiming for.
so lil man, i think you can get this girl, or any girl easily. (: good luck and have fun.
any questions, problems, shoot me an email
No comments:
Post a Comment