What to say to a girl when your grinding?

im 16 and starting to go to clubs, im kinda shy and need some advice for grinding with girls and trying to hook up with them

what do you say to start dancing with them? nothing? or do you just say ';do you want to dance?';

where should you put your hands when your grinding

should you say anything to them? all i can think of to say is whats your name, where are you from or where do you go to school, how old are you, etc idk what else to say

what should you say or do if you want to try to make out with them

also do girls like it when you get a ***** while grinding with them

any other advice appreciated thanksWhat to say to a girl when your grinding?
Wow. You're kinda shy and you want to move right on into grinding, eh? And then to hooking up with her? By asking her a series of the most shallow, boring, and yet somehow intrusive questions ever, screamed into her ear in order to be half-heard over the pounding music? Think about it. Does this make any logical sense whatsoever to you?

Only the cheapest, most desperate females will find it appealing at all, and most of them still will not want to ';hook up';, so you will think of them as ***teases when they're not. They just don't have the know-how or moxie to stop your inappropriate behavior. If you push it, you venture into the realm of date-rape and if convicted, into the further joys of being labeled a sex offender for the rest of your life.

Why don't you skip the clubs until you learn how to make conversation with girls? And forget grinding for awhile. Grinding is simply foreplay of the crudest and most basic type. It's for cave men. Read a couple books on how men and women communicate, then ask two or three girls (at the same time) to accompany you to go to a movie and on to have ice cream later. That way they know that you're not trying to hook up, you're just trying to make female friends. And just sit back and listen. Trust me. They will carry the conversation on without you, but you can chime in. They will want you to. Just don't talk about sex. You're not there to hook up. You're there to learn about women. You can only learn about women by hanging around them. Once you learn about women and what they want, then you can start hooking up, and it will be a lot more fun, and a lot more frequent.What to say to a girl when your grinding?
Lol last night was my first dance in highschool. At first all of the freshman were nervous but I got dragged into the middle of the circle in the middle of the dance floor. Then out of the blue the hottest girl with the nicest *** asked me to dance. At first I had it under control then it happened. I got nervous at first but she just went harder so I did also. Then after that all of the juniors after that wanted me to grind with them. When ever I got one they all dropped low to lift it up. Lol even though it was akward in the beginning I can't complain :) lol
Lol your 16 and dont know what to do.. i went to a club at 14 and knew what to do obvo you put your hands on their waste and if your in a club your not going to say what school do you go to LIKE DUH? and i wouldnt like it if a boy got a hard on when i was dancing with him id laugh and think he was a looser
Since your intentions are to hook up with them, then why don't you just say what's on your mind and skip the pretentious crap? If they are interested in hooking up, they don't need any special lines. Just come out and tell them you want to bang them. Okay??
ask them if they want to dance I don't think you put your hands on them when grinding and if they do grind with you it is a good sign they want to hook up on thing though. DO NOT GET A ***** THAT WILL RUIN EVERYTHING!
usually you dont have to say anything, just put your hands on their hips and theylle look back at you and 80 percent of the time theylle start dancing
i have the same promblem

umm u ask do u want to dance

and talk about......name age things like

before sex and making out ask about bf is she has one
Hey thats cool im 16 2:) Well u can ask them to dance, im sure they wont say no cuz u sound hot:)Put your hands on her waist, lowerback, or if its goin really good on her ***:) If u wanna get to know her more you can ask her questions, and im sure she might ask u some questions too. If u wanna makeout with her than just say do u wanna go someplace more private. Some hot line will work but u have to respect her with wutever she wants to do or doesnt wanna do. Um for the ***** part most girls like it but others might not. It depends who ur with?? Lol we should grind sometime at a club:) Or we could just chat over IM:))