Dancing or grinding with a girl?

i grinded my first time last year at a dance and now im in high school and thats all people did at homecoming

my date danced really fast and i couldnt keep up so we just decieded to dance with other people

is it ok that i get hard when i do it

and how do you know if you are doing it right?Dancing or grinding with a girl?
you know sometimes girls think its either a) weird a guy's getting a hard on or b) why isnt this kid getting a hard on??



personally with me i like knowing a guy is hard, but i mean contain urself a little bit. it isnt sex with clothes on at a dance u know. and if ur date dances too fast, put ur hands on her front thighs and be like u know what u should dance slow.



if u dance slow she'll follow ur example.