Sunday, November 14, 2010

How can I dance with more girls in a dance club?

because simply asking ';Wanna dance?'; just won't do.. every night i will start by being polite and all to girls dancing by themselves or just standing next to a wall watching... IT NEVER WORKS! they always got some excuse or say no after no..

after about 5 mins, went thru that humilation of getting rejected by 5-10 girls in a row.. I just say F this, and start grinding behind girls whoever i fancy and see what happen.. yes its true that i still get shot down a lot when i do that, but at least there's no verbal exchange, if they don't like me, they just stop dancing or move a bit, i get the hint and move on to the next one until i got one to grind and keep going till the night ends.

yet, i see some of these not so good-looking guys with same girls grinding and even making out as the night gets to the end.

what am i doing wrong??How can I dance with more girls in a dance club?
Look dude... The problem is that you look like you need one of these girls to have a good time. Now that's okay but they can't know that. Women like men who look like they don't need anyone else to have fun.They like to see confidence. That's why a confident ';uglier'; guy will get the girl before you. Also while your walking around the club like a pinball trying to hump everyone, take a look around because a girl is not going to dance with you after she sees you humping 6 other girls and getting rejected. Show some personality. Why not try meeting one of the girls at the bar and talking to them first. Work in a funny conversation, make them laugh and feel comfortable with you. Then get them to dance, then the possible hook up. Don't be the guy that walks around by club like a shark. Girls spot you a mile away and then your out. Not a chance with any of them. They 'll just watch you and say oh know here he comes! then reject you. I'm a talker and can easily work my way into a conversation and make it fun. Try it. Don't treat this as a serious situation because it's not. Try having fun with yourself. Find a good spot near the bar where girls are constantly coming up to get drink. Try meeting them when they don't expect to meet someone. That's when you get them for the rest of the night instead of a quick hump dance.

Also can you dance....this maybe part of the problem.

Also if your the walk around hump guy this weekend... they will remember you next weekend. Most people end up at the same places all the time. Try going to a different shark tank...oh sorry I mean club.How can I dance with more girls in a dance club?
i would ask if she would wanna dance..personally i hate those creepy guys standing watching on the wall..and comming up to dance with me randomly no! im sorry i dont like that..or just bring a girl to dance with
some girls dont like random guys coming up to them and grinding up to them some do. Some are looking for fun others just wanna a night out to get away from things. Some are in relationships..

There are many reasons why girls probably dont wanna dance.



Just contiune being yourself and outgoing and dont put down yourself when you get rejected and instead of you finding the girl the girl will find you.
walk up to them and say something dumb and smart at the same time

like ask a girl who has a drink if she'd like a drink dumb i know

when she say's she's got one ask her if she'd like you to reimburse her for the one she's got

for some stupid reason this seems to work
Bro, when I go to clubs.. I dance with whoever I want to dance with.. You dont have to ask.. Just be slick and slide in behind them as thier dancing and be you.. Touch their waste a little bit and they will keep dancing or walk away.. Asking is for the weak.. Girls like being noticed and they feel good when a guy comes onto them like that..

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